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    Default how to learn how to demonstrate higher value?

    Hello everyone
    So I can see my self improving in opening and approaching sets. But the thing that I think am still didn't get it yet, is to demonstrate a higher value. I get a lot of numbers but none of them replayed to my text and I think the reason is that I didn't demonstrate a higher value. How I can really demonstrate a higher value and improve my self in that area and show that am different than other guys?

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    Default Re: how to learn how to demonstrate higher value?

    Be high energy - about 10% above thier energy level

    Flip attraction switches - through your action, environmemt, the thoughts you express, or your stories; show that you are a leader if men, are pre-selected/desired by other females, you care for your loved ones, you have interesting skills, and you are socialized with many desirable peole (everyone and/or an "in crowd" and/or a societal eliet)

    Neg abd tease her - this points out that she is imperfect, thus raising your relative value

    Be Alpha - be relaxed and calm, direct the conversation and initiate movement (of topics as well as actual travel). Also be confident and take up space by gestueing

    Don't look to her for guidance

    Don't seek her approval

    Don't be emotionally affected by her (only be amused - you might permit yourself to be impressed if she passes a qualification test tho).

    Don't complain - about anything while talking to her

    Don't try to impress her.

    Just let be revealed the facts about you (strategically framed, phrased and metered though they may be) and she will be impressed of her own accord.
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR

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    Default Re: how to learn how to demonstrate higher value?

    You can use phones to your complete advantage for DHV:

    1) After gaining enough rapport with some HB's pull out your phone 'lets take a picture!'. Girls will almost always accept, and good looking girls love having their picture taken. You show confidence and as they gather into you closely and intimately you put your arms around them for some instant kino action. Take a few photos because some won't be good or turn out. Try take one with a funny pose 'Now lets do silly faces'. Show her or them the photos and they will have to come in close to you again. You can tease them a little too 'whoa, you're looking crazy there!!'. Then you have a huge opportunity to number close straight away 'hey I'll send them to you, that picture you look really cute....(insert suave kino's number close)...it was Debbie right?' start entering in her details. Dont send all the pictures, keep one or two to send her later if she's not writing and you can remind her of the fun night you had. You demonstrate higher value by being confident enough to take pictures, confident enough to draw them in for a photo, leadership and expertise with technology and possibly creativity if you can take interesting shots. While viewing the photos you can double up with part 2) below.

    2) Store your life on your phones photo album. Retain great photos or load on some cool pics from your life. Nice sunsets, exotic travel locations, a nightclub shot, pics of your friends and family, your art, the restaurant quality dish you made a week ago, a pic of you as a baby (awwww how did that get in there haha). A picture of yourself 'that's me last week. Am I handsome?'. Anywhere you are in the world or life there will be something interesting to photo and tell stories about. 'oh that's just my cupboard - it broke and I needed to fix it so I took photos to help me get new hinges' (handyman good husband dhv). You raise your value by actually proving what an awesome life you lead through photos and make your stories so much more entertaining. You can lead in innocently 'I was out in the country the other day, we found the biggest pumpkin ever!! oh wait I have a photo... let me see...oh here it is (girls drawn in close to you - hold them if you feel its ok to kino) look at that monster! Imagine the pumpkin soup you could make with that! Oh here's a picture of my new surfboard...oh that is my sisters dog chuck...who's she? That's my colleague, she's very beautiful huh' blah blah blah 'Hey I should get a photo of you on here' refer back to part 1).

    You should be continuing to raise your value through texts too 'Hi! We won the project today! Yay!' or 'I just saw a dolphin while surfing, he smiled at me' or whatever. Try not to reveal all your talents to women straight away. Keep a few up your sleeve for later 'oh you paint too? Quite the talented man'.

    Also you can send picture messages instead of always texting. You pass by some flowers in a field. Take a photo and send it to a girl. You witness an amazing sunset. Photograph it and send it to someone. You're out skating with your mates. Take a pic and send it. Don't be afraid to show off but also make yourself humble. 'Look at this poor village elder in Laos from my recent holiday...he has very little money...but he has the biggest smile in the world'.

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    Default Re: how to learn how to demonstrate higher value?

    Autismus is right, read my tag line - that was my mantra to myself as I was learning pickup. Never need praise, sympathy, or approval
    They're lucky you're talking to them because you're the coolest person out there. You should never feel (or show) that you're glad they're talking to you

    You don't need their approval, they need yours

    I started by focusing on my body language. Keep your feet apart not crossed. Hands open not crossed. Don't hold any drink or anything in front of your chest, hands down and open. Head up, chest slightly out (will feel different at first).
    Put a smirk on your face and tell yourself you're the coolest person there. Internalize a little arrogance, it's actually ok as long as you don't start talking like an A Hole.

    After a bit of practice this stuff really does become internalized. If you force your body language, eventually it becomes your natural body language.
    Never need praise, sympathy, or approval




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