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Thread: Need help with cute girl at high school

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    Default Need help with cute girl at high school

    The girl is in all my classes (not decided by any of us) and we always look at eachother when the other is not, and we both know it! It's really childish. We have only known eachother for a month, and it's really clear that she likes me. And I like her. I've been to this little cupcake factory with her and we had a good time, I did "the cube" on her, and I think she liked it. Anyways, i suggested that we should hang out this saturday (today is friday). She replied with "Aaaaww I would love too, but my grandparents are visiting and I have to be with them and stuff. Not much later I decided to be the one leaving the conversation and said I had to go steel a pirate ship, whatever.
    Was that a rejection? Or is she still interested? Moving too fast? What next?

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    Default Re: Need help with cute girl at high school

    I wouldn't over think it, she probably does have legitimate plans

    Try again, if she says no again then ask her when would be better, if she doesn't come up with another evening then that's a rejection

    Don't worry about it right now
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    Default Re: Need help with cute girl at high school

    Make sure you don't hide the fact that you like her. Doesn't matter who leaves the conversation or anything like that, unless you want to hide what you think of her.

    Try giving her confident Indicators of Interest instead.. let her know that you like her on purpose, and don't be shy about it. An example would be to ask if she is singel.. (does not mean to ask if she has a boyfriend, you want to hear that she is singel right? so ask about that, even if you know ) and don't be ashamed by asking, or showing interest.

    The more a girl can see that you like her, and sees that you don't try to hide it.. the easier it is for her to show you that she is interest back. And doesn't it feel good when a girl is interested in you and she shows it?! -
    Everything becomes so much easier. Same goes for her.. It becomes easier for her too, when you show her that you like her. (both parties can feel less and less afraid of being rejected)

    It is not that you have to do alot.. Or that you have to do more. Actually it is about doing less. Less lying. Less hiding.

    An example would be when she looks at you like you were talking about in the class room.. Don't look away, give her a wink back instead and smile. Let her know

    If you wan't it in more PU terms; Value, Preselection will become a result of this, not because of routines, negs, or indirect games that this community has had so much love for, at least for a while, but because of you being real and honest. Which is rare, and usually only found in Naturals. --> Since girls recognize this, you are being put in the same category as the Natural. --> The Natural is characterized by Value and Preselection --> Thus, you have Value and Preselection.

    - Same goal achieved - Simpler means - Thus more effective - and not least, feels a hell lot better!




    Hope this made sense.


    And no that is not a rejection or loss of interest.

    You are all good mate. Good luck with the girl! hope it turns out well.




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    Default Re: Need help with cute girl at high school

    to a degree i agree with champ, you do need to show interest,but don't make it obvious! get her to dhv to you and then reward her dhv with ioi's and kino. force her to qualify herself to you before you give her your ioi's,this will help to get her pursueing you (it should be your goal) once she is the one pursueing the relationship all you have to do is use cat theory along with rewarding her for pursueing you (ioi's and kino), oh and the hole wink thing could be a little creepy, but you staring at her in class everyday is too
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    Default Re: Need help with cute girl at high school

    Thanks for great replies! I have an update on the "situation". I just got a text from her saying "Hey, so I was wondering if maybe you wanted to do something after school tomorrow?". My heart is beating a thousand times in a second! HELP! What should I do! Give me tips, tricks, and more TIPS!

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    Default Re: Need help with cute girl at high school

    Quote Originally Posted by Maz_Martin View Post
    Thanks for great replies! I have an update on the "situation". I just got a text from her saying "Hey, so I was wondering if maybe you wanted to do something after school tomorrow?". My heart is beating a thousand times in a second! HELP! What should I do! Give me tips, tricks, and more TIPS!
    You could always say, "Hmmm I don't know...I already did 'something' yesterday. But I'm open to suggestions. heehee!"

    A response like that will make her feel a little bit of a challenge, and also show that you're definitely interested, but in a non-needy way.

    Try to ALWAYS think of a reply that is slightly sassy & smarty-pants-ish, without sounding arrogant or too cocky.

    And when in doubt, use emoticons to wink, or stick your tongue out, to be sure she understands you're only messing with her, just to be fun & entertaining.



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    Default Re: Need help with cute girl at high school

    I just copy - pasted your suggestion. Thanks, I hope this works....

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    Default Re: Need help with cute girl at high school

    how did it go? btw there is no substitute for an honest attitude.. whatever you are up to. and if you are able to show that you are interested with your body language that is great. makes you more authentic, if the case is that you aaare interestered in her.


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