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  1. #1
    dazedtrance is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Need help with closing this girl I have been dating.

    I've been on/off with this girl for a few months. She's a really flirty, attention whore who got out of a 1 yr relationship about 8 months ago. She's young, doesn't work, and has always had a bf for 8 yrs. Her past bfs usually spoil her. Shes been with gangsta type, nice guys, etc. She has a lot of guy friends.

    The thing is her emotions are like a roller coaster--up and down. Everything was going well with each other. She showed more interest in me before I did, I met her family, friends, etc. Her bff even said if "I can catch her it would be worth it." Then all of a sudden, she gets mad at me over something dumb about a month ago. And things have been up/down since. Ive gone through the no-communicating phase and she wanted me back but when I laid down the boundaries about flirty with other guys in front of me and how disrespectful it is. There's usually problems.

    We are "friends" but yet we still talk almost everyday. and on her b-day she seemed to be pulling me back in. When I try to get her to go out with me alone she seems like trying to avoid me. I'm trying to figure her out so I can get her interested in me more and in bed.

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    kearney94 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need help with closing this girl I have been dating.

    Forget about her for a little while. Meet other women. See where she is in a few months and then see if it could work better. Sometimes, people just have some growing up to do.

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    Shakeshi is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Need help with closing this girl I have been dating.

    What exactly was the "something dumb" that made her mad at you ?

    By your own words she craves lots of attention and then you try to shut
    down that attention by attempting to stop her from flirting. The way she
    sees it is that you are getting jealous and trying to control her. Considering
    that you are not even a couple nor have you slept together, the way you
    are acting is probably a turn off for her.

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    dazedtrance is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need help with closing this girl I have been dating.

    Quote Originally Posted by Shakeshi View Post
    What exactly was the "something dumb" that made her mad at you ?

    By your own words she craves lots of attention and then you try to shut
    down that attention by attempting to stop her from flirting. The way she
    sees it is that you are getting jealous and trying to control her. Considering
    that you are not even a couple nor have you slept together, the way you
    are acting is probably a turn off for her.
    the reason why she was upset...
    her:so i heard u bring home a lot of girls
    me:umm..no...who said that?
    her:i heard
    me:well my out of town friends sleep at my place.
    her:so ur playa, i dont deal with them they are too much lol

    so blah blah blah, she gets upset. my fault for trying to explain myself. turns out she made it up...


    I don't completely shut it down...I tell her after a social event very calm and subtle "its disrespectful in front of me, and if your gonna do it don't call me to hang out"...but since then we have hung out and I don't even care anymore...but I see your pt.

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    pua_wannabe is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Need help with closing this girl I have been dating.

    Your not married to this woman, so go flirt with some girls and use her as social proof. Show her that her feeble attempts at getting a rise out of you are meaningless. If you want to have a relationship with this girl wait a while down the road just as Kearney94 said! In any relationship whomever cares less controls it! I hope this helps
    Take her off that farking pedestal!

    “The truth does not change according to our ability to stomach it.”
    ― Flannery O'Connor

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    whitedragon is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Need help with closing this girl I have been dating.

    All your doing by NC is being a friend that doesn't contact another friend. Irrelevant of what the girls personality is you have to go and get what you want physically straight away or slide deeper and deeper into the friendzone. Somewhere along the line you have to be physical with her and the longer you leave it the harder it is. Kiss her. Fark her.

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    dazedtrance is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need help with closing this girl I have been dating.

    Quote Originally Posted by pua_wannabe View Post
    Your not married to this woman, so go flirt with some girls and use her as social proof. Show her that her feeble attempts at getting a rise out of you are meaningless. If you want to have a relationship with this girl wait a while down the road just as Kearney94 said! In any relationship whomever cares less controls it! I hope this helps
    both of you guys are right....i think shes just does some of these things to get a response from me.

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    dazedtrance is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need help with closing this girl I have been dating.

    Quote Originally Posted by whitedragon View Post
    All your doing by NC is being a friend that doesn't contact another friend. Irrelevant of what the girls personality is you have to go and get what you want physically straight away or slide deeper and deeper into the friendzone. Somewhere along the line you have to be physical with her and the longer you leave it the harder it is. Kiss her. Fark her.
    nc ended awhile back.. and i was initiating kino with her...


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