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Thread: What to do when Passing a Cute Girl Somewhere?

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    Default What to do when Passing a Cute Girl Somewhere?

    I have approach anxiety when it comes to randomly approaching a girl and start talking. I want/need to build up my confidence and I decided to start with a gesture or body language thing to do when passing a girl in the hallway or somewhere in public that shows I think she is cute or I'm being friendly or something. I'm thinking of simply smiling or something but I think it'll be really cheesy. Any advice on this or getting rid of this fear?

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    Default Re: What to do when Passing a Cute Girl Somewhere?

    smiling is always good, unless you smile at her in a perverted way and scare d sh1t outta her ..

    but its not gonna help you over AA, simply because the girls won't just magically come talk to you, just cause you smiled at them..

    the only way to beat AA is to approach within 3 seconds of you seeing her, that way you will be faster than your mind thinking about why you shouldn't approach, and actually just APPROACH.. remember nothing bad can happen.. the worst thing possible is she rejects you.. SO?

    most people say, i am not anxious, i just donno what i should say.. 'HI, i'm PUA'

    if you do not approach, you still are being 'rejected' by all those women you could have approached..

    remember, 'the only true failure is the failure of not trying/approaching'
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    Default Re: What to do when Passing a Cute Girl Somewhere?

    I get AA sometimes still. If it's a fear of rejection thing then I use one of these and it's easier because basically they are almost guaranteed to end in friendly rejection, and by facing the fear of rejection it becomes less powerful.

    Or sometimes it's not the fear of rejection, sometimes the girl is just SOOO hot she is intimidating. For that, watch this! And be inspired by Sasha Daygame - rejection is no big deal.

    But sometimes it's neither of those, sometimes I am just tired. When that's the case I don't open a set with, say a directions opener, intending to game, I open a set BECAUSE I actually need directions. If there is something teasable about them I'll tease a bit, then if they seem interesting I'll stay and chat - eventually it fall into gaming, and gaming when you don't feel likegaming or don't intend to can be produce some of your best material.

    AA is a beast which takes many forms. Just like knowing how to play different types of women, it can help to destroy specific types of AA in specific ways.
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    Default Re: What to do when Passing a Cute Girl Somewhere?

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