Re: How to proceed now? Pretty complex sarge
I think you gave yourself the advice.
I personally don't like to deal with a woman who wants to get a replacement boyfriend. At least on a serious note. She will have too much baggage and theres a risk she will just go right back to him.
If you want to keep pushing then go for it. Continue with flirting and don't reveal your feelings....ever.... .again. Not until you sleep with her. Not kiss, not feel on her *whistle*. I mean full blown doing what they do on the Discovery Channel. That's the only time you ever reveal. Before that is just messing around. Tell her you love her and want to get married, then say you hate her and want the divorce, but you get to keep the house. This is roleplaying and I personally love it.
Read up on qualification. This will really make you seem like a challenge and her eyes will be stuck on you rather than her bf. Also read up on bf destroyers.
Again this situation isn't my particular taste, but everyone has to go through it at least once. Hope this helps and good luck.
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