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Thread: Hired gun. Did I make eight move?what's Next?

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    Default Hired gun. Did I make eight move?what's Next?

    There is a solid 9 who waits/ bartends at a place I frequent. I've been going there for about a year, more frequently now that I'm single. I'm friends with the bar manager which is why I started going there to begin.

    So the past week or 2 she has been chatting me up, first time I've talked to her. I'm new to the game and figure it's the hired fun game. But I decided to just work on my game with her anyways.

    The other day my buddy, the manager, and her are at lunch before they go in and the topic of discussion was me. My buddy tells me im in, no questions.

    Last night, I went in because I told her I would after the tough mudder. I had dinner and some drinks. She stayed after she got off and drank with me, some light kino throughout. One ofmthener bartenders comes in with another regular and we take off to the next bar. I get stuck outside talking to the bouncer while they went in. I used the opportunity to build rapport and hopefully not have to wait in line in the future.

    I go in and find my group. I can tell Charles, the other bartender doesn't like what's going on between 9 and I...not my problem...yet...

    I end up with 9 alone at the bar. Had her basically turn her back to Charles he felt uncomfortable and walked, would come back with a girl for me, I'd entertain them for a second and then focus on 9 again. Some more escalation at the bar and they close. We walk outside...and it's a done deal...I know for fact I could have f closed... But Charles was whining.

    So, she can't figure out what to do, and I'm beat so I tell her it was fun and im off. As I'm walking away I hear her call a name she was calling me earlier, but I ignored it and kept walking. Marooned the corner I stopped to text another girl I'm working on, an 8, but my first model. As I'm standing there she coes running up and kicks me. We flirt for a minute more and then here come ps Charles, moping up behind her. He sits down. He keeps saying, "let's go back to your place", "give me a key then", "well I'm going home" (no he's not). But I'm tired of just standing around on the street and head home again.

    Did I do the right thing walking? I thought it was DHV while at the sametime a punishment because she wouldn't tell this guy to beat feet, it was obvious what she wanted. I would have been more forward but charles is an acquaintance, I've PU'd with him and we go out. Had I not known him I'd have told him to get lost.

    And my last question, what's my next move?

    Thanks for the help.

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    Default Re: Hired gun. Did I make eight move?what's Next?

    I think you did fine. She was your girl, so it's Charles fault for running interference, if he knew game he would have stepped away
    I would have pushed it further and brought her back for a beer, but no foul on not doing it

    My suggestion is to wait 2 days, open with an inside joke of you can, then set up a formal date
    You and her, and go from there
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    Default Re: Hired gun. Did I make eight move?what's Next?

    Yea, brining girls back here is a no go currently. I'm recently singled, but we're still under the same roof. Thanks for the advice.

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    Default Re: Hired gun. Did I make eight move?what's Next?

    Red Baron is right.

    Food for thought: I'm an asshole. Practically everybody knows that I'm an asshole. My ex's know (obviously). My mom knows. My best friends know. So, if some guy is being a little b*tch, whining and blocking my way, I throw everything down on the table and show everone's cards, and it's because everyone knows that I can get away with just about anything I want (including that). People who don't know me vouch for me to the few who don't. "That's just the way he is." "That's why we like him." Don't get me wrong, I'm a good guy and care about people, but what I want comes first most of the time, then what my friends want, then I suppose people I don't know, but probably the hungry and poor and sh*t like that before them :P

    Example. A couple days ago we're sitting in class and the prof asks me to read. I'm playing blackjack on my computer, not giving a f*ck. Only two of us even bring computers to the class, and I'm the only one who has it out at the moment. She called me out because I obviously wasn't paying attention. I lift my hand slightly and say, "I'm actually going to pass." All the girls laugh--one even gasped. The professor smiled and went on with her business. My friend said the truth, "Only you could get away with that."

    So at that moment when Charles was really f*cking things up, I would have shown everyone's cards.

    "Charles, just go home. (Girl) and I are having a good night and want to continue it without you. It's nothing personal, but you're being a little b*tch, so let us have our fun and I'll get you back some other night. Cool? Cool."

    Then take the girl and walk away.
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    Default Re: Hired gun. Did I make eight move?what's Next?

    Nut up or shut up, got it lol.

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    Default Re: Hired gun. Did I make eight move?what's Next?

    Update: Charles is hitting me up to come out for a drink. He is with the girl who is undoubtedly telling him to get me out. Well see how I feel when my laundry is done...may get to try your method Cody pretty soon...

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    Default Re: Hired gun. Did I make eight move?what's Next?

    Never had to do call him out. He basically did it to himself and everyone else, including the girl called him out. I just sat back and watched in amusement ;-)

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    Default Re: Hired gun. Did I make eight move?what's Next?

    Update: went out 2 more times with chuck taking himself out of the picture. The way he was acting everyone wanted him to leave.

    HG and I went out for drinks last night. Then went to another bar our mutual friend was DJing at. Ran into chuck. They had their tiffs. I called him out, but did it in private. In the bathroom. He gave me the green light and went home.

    I gave him some advice, it was AFC advice, but its what he needed to do to be with the chick. She wants him to either be with her and only her, or let her mingle also. He wants his cake and to eat it too. He wants to f other chicks, just not have her f other dudes. So I laid it out for him.

    This morning he was blowing her shit up about how he feels and what not. She seemed rather irritated with him.


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