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    Bluerose is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Exclamation Running Game on Girls I know

    When I first read "The Game" in high school, I tried to read every pickup book I could find. Eventually I got the nerve to try it out on some of the girls in my class, and guess what?! IT WORKED!

    However, success has its trade-offs. Soon I had obtained the reputation of a "player" and some girls would dismiss my advances simply because of this reputation alone.

    Right now I am a freshman in Dublin studying with about 90 or so other students in a foreign exchange program. We all live together in an apartment complex, so it's a very small, tight-knit community.

    My issue is that, I can walk into a club and run game on complete strangers simply because I know that if I screw up, I will never have to see them again. I have had some success because, knowing that their opinions of me don't matter, instills in me some confidence. However, I can't seem to be able to run game on anybody in my classes because I am nervous that Ill end up with the negative reputation that I had in high school(keep in mind, this is a very small community, Word gets around).

    Now I love everything that pickup has taught me; how to be confident, be assertive, and simply get what you want in life. I certainly don't want to stop.

    So tell me players: What would you do? Would you "game" the girls in such a small community? Or would you be safe and only practice on the girls that you would never have to see again?

    Looking forward to hearing what you have to say

    -BlueRose

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    Default Re: Running Game on Girls I know

    If it was me, just my particular style, I would build attraction with every girl in the small community (just don't show interest in any who aren't GFmaterial or FWB material or absolutely mindblowingly hot). If it's the kind of place where word spreads fast, then here's how your reputation will go:
    if you hook up with one - no big deal.
    the second one - you have the reputation as being desirable / a sexual person
    the third one - you are percieved as someone who sleeps around
    forth - player
    fifth - player
    sixth - player
    etc

    I'd build attraction with them so that they are dying to go clubbing and what not with you (social proof to get random girls) and also screen them, if there's a girl whos personality you really like

    That's what I'd do. It's an interesting situation, I'd like to see what other post
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    Default Re: Running Game on Girls I know

    You definitely only practice on ones you have no stake with. For anyone in your community just use what you know works. It takes a long time to get them to have a different opinion of you otherwise. The key is being genuine.

    For any woman in your community you have to give them the idea that you are looking for "the one." That way if it doesn't work out, it's because of her and not because you are a player. That you are genuinely looking for someone special and she wasn't it. You have to set the frame that you are looking to settle down, but will not settle for any less than what you expect out of a good woman.

    And NEVER brag to your friends about who you hooked up with. If women ask, keep it on a hush. Tell them that's personal and you don't like to air your dirty laundry. All they really need to know is that they won't feel like a slut who fell for a "players" routines.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Running Game on Girls I know

    Thanks for the advice guys.

    I guess the game plan is to try and simply be seen as a high value mate to the girls in my small community. Essentially by DHVing while the whole time sending mixed signals.

    Eventually, I hope to be seen as a prized individual, rather than someone who will sleep around with anyone.

    However, my game isn't perfect and I still need practice. Which is why I am going out all next week and hitting the clubs.

    I might not be a mPUA yet, but by the end of this foreign exchange program, my goal is to be confident in my abilities enough that I can obtain what I desire. Whether it's a random one night stand or a multi-year relationship, I want to be the one who chooses the circumstances of my sex life.

    I think that's why we are all here.

    Peace out,
    Bluerose


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