Here's a brief rundown of my situation.
I'm a 39 year old guy who got divorced last year after nearly 12 years with my ex. In the last while I've been reading up on pua, but working on inner game mostly. I feel good and confident and lots of people have said I am a changed man. Been on four dates, most through social circles, so no cold opening really.
Anyway, I had been chatting on and off to girl (back to april), but we only got together on thursday. When I saw her she looked far better than her photos. For me stunning. Venezuelan, ebony skin, fantastic eyes and legs, about 5,5. 31.
We went for a drink, a beer each. I didn't think that were chilled enough so we drank half and went to another place. Decent chat, her hobbies etc. she liked hiking and suggested we do it sometime. She sat close so my legs were touching hers, she touched my arms to make a point, when a bit of peanut got stuck in my throat she patted my back. Showed me her tattoo on her back. I stroked it softly and said it was really nice. Had the drink, went back to first pub, which is her local.
Karaoke night. I'm "meh" with karaoke, depends on my mood. Anyway a couple more drinks and I have my arms around her waist. A slow song came om and we got into a clinch. So plenty of physical contact. Then she got a form and filled it in for me to sing angie, I am a pro guitarist (she knew this) so I just acted nonplussed about it, eventjough I didn't really want to do it, likewise I didn't want to create a drama about it. Anyway, she's holding my hand and stuck to my while I murdered the rolling stones. Nice all the same. it continued and we had a slow dance, it was a small bar with little intimacy, so I leaned into her hear, kissed her neck and both cheeks but didn't go for the tongue cos of the people around. I figured, she lived five mins away so I would get her back to hers.
Then it just went to sh1t. I was getting bored with the karaoke, she had more to drink. She just suddenly became quite drunk, four beers! She apologized saying it's her first time out in ages etc. then a friend of hers shows up, and I think that's that farked. So she had to have a drink and talk with her. (cock block?) In my twenties I would have hung around, but I told her I had to go. I knew it wasn't going to happen. So I gave her a kiss and that was it. She was pissed. (british sense drunk). Oh yeah, she introduced me as steve he's a guitar player, which was quite cool.
Anyway, this was thursday, I texted her on saturday with "i saw something today that reminded me of you" just to elicit some interaction before I call, but there has been no response so far. Kind of regretting sending it now to be honest.She was cool when she was sober and I am regretting not bailing after the drink at the second bar and giving her a kiss while we were alone.
Apologies for the long post or mistakes (posting from phone), but should I call? It's crazy I feel like I am a kid again fretting over a girl at school. Ha ha.