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    Default Re: New to these forums would appreciate input

    Quote Originally Posted by Seraphim View Post
    I called her once today and she didnt pick up as expected i was thinking of just being honest with her and send her this message.."I realized that text i sent to you on Saturday Night was a dumb idea and since it came from me i am responsible.I let my dark side get the best of me.Can you please forgive me? I have a birthday party coming up in a couple of weeks and i would like you to join me."
    What do you guys think could this work to lower her guards?
    Forgive you? Dude...

    I said it is risky to call because she may not be able to answer even if she wanted to. Now she has a lame text from you and a 'missed call'...and you are contemplating going for the trifecta by apologising and asking for foregiveness??? I would not send another lame text about apologising. That is rediculous. Where is her apology for not responding after she kissed you??? Get your head together.

    You do not need to apologise for anything. If she is not responding to you she is either cold hearted, has some life changing unavoidable commitments or has met someone else. Stop being a pussy and ask her out via text or in person if she wont answer the phone, If she doesn't respond, her loss and you are finally free of your torment to go out and chase new girls who will respond. Always have more than one girl in the loop as a matter of course. Good luck

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    Default Re: New to these forums would appreciate input

    I'm in agreement with WhiteDragon, the only reason that you would be apologising is to grab her attention and to get her to come back and say 'oh you don't need to apologise'.... but you know what? It won't play out as you want it to, if you apologise you make yourself look weaker to her and from what has been written you have nothing to apologise for at all.

    Remember, this is just one woman and there are so many others out there. I think after you meet a new woman, you always need to lead with a text. That way you give her enough chance to reply to see whether she is keen to continue what you've started or whether she really just wants to back out. Too late now, so I would say quit worrying, move on and if she's that interested in you she will know that you want stuff to happen and will be the one to get back to you. Heck, she may even realise that you've gone quiet on her, wonder why and be the person who actually ends up getting back to you herself!

    And I would say, head out there today, see all those beautiful women around you and realise that if you were to be caught up with the woman that you kissed that she had better be worth missing out on all those other beautiful women that surround you and then you will truly realise that it's down to her to be the one that makes the next move, you have far too many other options than to get caught up with her.

    Good luck!

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    Default Re: New to these forums would appreciate input

    dont invite her out until she forgives you,
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    actuall scratch that, send a text first, if she doesnt respond, move on, remember she is only an option
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: New to these forums would appreciate input

    I realized the mistake i made was that i should have been more nonchalant about her shit test.Anyways i wont contact her anytime soon.I do have a bday party comin up on the 8th with another female coworker..Is there anyway i can bait her into coming?

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    Default Re: New to these forums would appreciate input

    I just want to pop in to say thx for all the good ideas in this thread.

    ALSO... whitedragon... can u please write an article/ start a thread about all the stuff u cover in here?

    I feel alot of the stuff u mention in regards to the situation of having already kclosed is not covered elsewhere.

    Thx if possible. I really wish we could get the forum organized . Having more experts with their own threads) will lower all the extra posts that are basically asking similar questions.
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    Default Re: New to these forums would appreciate input

    Question regarding supplication.
    Even after she said she won't go back to the room she still continued to kiss me heavy until she left.She was even smiling when i said this too be continued.She has another woman she is seeing(for the past couple months),so my take on it is that she is processing what happened.Anyways what i think attracted her to me was that i didnt show too much interest when she started texting me a couple weeks ago.Sometimes i wouldnt reply for 2 days.I should have kept doing that.I have a bday party coming up in a couple weeks and unless she returns my call i should not even invite her.Wouldnt that be a form of supplication,since you are rewarding her for bad behavior?

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    Default Re: New to these forums would appreciate input

    its been 12 days since i last called her after that text.She didn't return the call and it was the only time i called her.I have been silent throughout the 12 days to show her that i am not too needy.Now, would it be a weak move if i invited her to my bday party this friday or should i never contact her until i run into her?

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    Default Re: New to these forums would appreciate input

    UPDATE
    I think my plan of not contacted her for almost 12 days worked out ok

    I sent her a text inviting her to my bday party tonight.

    HB:Can't make im off work at 3AM(this is true..i was testing her to see if she would call off)

    LS:Well your gonna have to make it up to me

    HB:LOL

    LS: I enjoy being spoiled especially on my day..so i will be waiting

    HB: LOL

    LS: So..when are you taking me out?

    HB: LOL..when my girl says i can

    HB:BTW sorry i haven't responded been busy and just paid to turn my phone back on

    HB: I'll set you up after(implying she will set me up for something after my bday)

    LS:K

    Tried to end the convo then went to my outbox to delete my msgs and i accidently hit send on one of them

    LS:So when are you taking me out? (accidently sent that msg twice)

    LS:Ignore that last msg..i sent it twice

    What do you guys think am i still in the game?

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    Default Re: New to these forums would appreciate input

    i think you did OK. But you kind of asked her 3 times if she was going to take you out which could be perceived as clingly. Especially the part where you say 'I will be waiting...' NO! You have a life without her. NO WAITING ON HER! I don't mean to sound serious but you have to get that concept out of your head. Don't ever even imply it. AFCs wait for girls... PUAs go out after new girls when they encounter flakiness.

    After the "gonna have to make it up to me" part (which was a good start) I would have said "I am USED to being spoiled on my birthday. (Kinda implies that other women give you a good time on your BDAY). I usually like ... (list like 3 crazy things... moonlight walks in Paris or someone far away from you, etc)...

    She would LOL you again probably and the you could tell her to do it soon because you will be busy later on.
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