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Thread: I need tips on how to be a "BAD BOY"

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    Default I need tips on how to be a "BAD BOY"

    I want the girls to pine for me. I want to be the jerk that they love to chase. I don't want to be verbally or physically abusive. I just want to be Alpha and get the power in the relationship.


    Does anyone have any tips or suggestions or a resource you can point me to?

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    Default Re: I need tips on how to be a "BAD BOY"

    The Art of Seduction has a great profile of each of the seducer types and how to play them. The Rake is the quintessential "Bad Boy" seducer.

    Robert Greene gives historical examples of the Rake in action. He is:
    - Powerful, never needy or apologetic
    - The perfect mix of danger and pleasure
    - Strong, with a dark/mysterious side
    - Desirous
    - Alpha and independent

    This book was wonderfully inspirational to me. My suggestion is to work on your inner game. You should take careful and honest assessment of yourself on paper, then write down what you want to change. Create a plan for changing each behavior and replacing it with a Rakish behavior.

    Do you have any movie heroes that inspire you? Tyler Durden of Fight Club is always a source of inspiration to me; his style, demeanor, and speaking cadence are enviable. Maybe take time to model yourself after a couple hero/mentors that are who you want to be like.

    Hope this helps!

    PS, the Vibe system has been helpful to me as well. It is solid advice presented in a clear, concise manner. It includes a video section on playing the bad boy.

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    Default Re: I need tips on how to be a "BAD BOY"

    Just watch a Motley Crue video haha. They are so extreme in not giving a fark they used to wear women's clothing around. A bit like Bon Scott from ACDC - the toughest thing he could do as a man was dress up like a girl - and get away with it. Bad boy with a heart of gold and cheeky amphetamine smile.

    Nikki Sixx and Tommy Lee probably screwed the best chicks in Motley Crue because they were the best conversationalists. They had some heart, humor or intelligence to back it up. Vince Neil was an air head wanna be David Lee Roth and the guitarist Mick Marrs was quiet and had health issues. If you were a hot babe you would want to screw Nikki Sixx or Tommy Lee first, Vince Neil third and Mick last. So even amongst a whole gang of truly bad boys there are alphas within that group. No matter how bad you get you still have to have some intelligence, leadership, humor, talent and a bit of heart. Even the Beatles were bad boys underneath their songs about peace, love and happiness.

    I thoroughly recommend playing in a band

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    Default Re: I need tips on how to be a "BAD BOY"

    look mate, i dont think you can pull of bad boy with out actually being one, i was a curupted kid so this is my strength, i have tats, dealt with gangs, violence everything, i see guys try and they just look like wannabees, its how your body language displays your experience, if you can mimic that then good, or you can use tattoo's like i do
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: I need tips on how to be a "BAD BOY"

    Quote Originally Posted by whitedragon View Post
    Just watch a Motley Crue video haha. They are so extreme in not giving a fark they used to wear women's clothing around. A bit like Bon Scott from ACDC - the toughest thing he could do as a man was dress up like a girl - and get away with it. Bad boy with a heart of gold and cheeky amphetamine smile.

    Nikki Sixx and Tommy Lee probably screwed the best chicks in Motley Crue because they were the best conversationalists. They had some heart, humor or intelligence to back it up. Vince Neil was an air head wanna be David Lee Roth and the guitarist Mick Marrs was quiet and had health issues. If you were a hot babe you would want to screw Nikki Sixx or Tommy Lee first, Vince Neil third and Mick last. So even amongst a whole gang of truly bad boys there are alphas within that group. No matter how bad you get you still have to have some intelligence, leadership, humor, talent and a bit of heart. Even the Beatles were bad boys underneath their songs about peace, love and happiness.

    I thoroughly recommend playing in a band
    Ahhhhh... memories!!

    The "Rock Star" attitude is definitely a great model, as far as the "Bad-Boy / Abundance" mentality goes.

    When you don't worry about getting girls because you always have plenty to choose from, that's when you get MORE girls.
    Even if you don't have an abundance, you can fake it in the beginning & just act like you have lots of options.

    Then it doesn't take long before that actually is the situation.

    That's why guys in bands can pull amazing looking women. Not only is their social status a plus, but they also represent excitement & adventure. (Two things women are attracted to).

    When I played in a band, I literally had to turn down several women each night. And by doing so, it increased the amount of women that pined for my attention.

    Even if you don't play in a band, you can adapt that abundance mindset & have results that are just as successful.


    Need one on one private coaching? PM me for details.

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    Default Re: I need tips on how to be a "BAD BOY"

    Experience is knowledge - girls like smart guys. Ambition is aggression and competitiveness - girls like successful men. Strength is courage - girls like a guy that can protect them. There are many types of bad boys from sonny barger of the hell's angels to bill gates, one of the 'pirates' of silicon valley, to the guy who aims to sleep with many women each week. It's risk taking, but calculated. Women are subconsciously looking for better or valuable alleles (genetics). Most real tough bad boys don't exactly have the choicest women hanging off them. You don't have to act like a crim just maximize your acsertive masculine traits, which means trying to meet lots of girls. If you go around simply talking to lots of girls you will be seen as a bad boy anyway by many women haha. You don't need experience with mean behavior, what a lot of women mean by bad boys is boys that have considerable experience with women they represent positive alleles to young women (but ofyen not their mothers!) and naturally many brave testerone fuelled guys will have less fear in going out and trying it on with women.

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    Default Re: I need tips on how to be a "BAD BOY"

    Thanks for the input guys.

    I guess I need to first decide what a loose definition of a "Bad Boy" is. I agree that woman do like excitement and adventure.

    The thing is I am not a CEO, I am not in a band, I don't have any tattoos. I do have my height 6'4", my looks, my head of hair, intelligence, humour and genually a good heart.

    I am considering buying "Carlos Xuma's" "How to be a 'Bad Boy'" program. I have researched it online and it has gotten many positive reviews from users. It's $100. The worse that can happen is I will learn a few techniques and see if they work or not in the field.


    Any other input is greatly appreciated.

    EasyFlow

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    Default Re: I need tips on how to be a "BAD BOY"

    Easyflow, it still comes down to talking, meeting and screwing lots of girls. You screw a couple of girls during the week and very quickly they are not on a pedestal and you might even want a break from repetitive conversation and whining women so Saturday night you want to drink beer with your buddies. Another girl rings you up and asks you what you are up to (because you haven't called all week) and you tell her your hanging with your buddies tonight and can't see her. She then thinks more insecurely wondering why you haven't dropped everything for her. She tries harder on Tuesday and actually asks you out. You agree and on the date there are lots of texts hitting your phone, even a phone call and she sees a girls name. You don't answer it and the girl starts thinking 'this guy has many women'. Because indeed you do, you don't apologize for it. She will start having to compete for your attention. You take her home and screw her, it's good but not as good as a few of the girls you had last week so afterwards you don't contact her again. That is also being a bad boy. You have lots of sex, or at least you are tuning many women.

    It is irrelevant of what you look like or your hobbies and job. Same with women. A bad girl is commonly interpretted as a slut. A girl who sleeps around with many men. So part of it all is having experience with women. If you are the type of guy who has experience with women you are more likely to experiment with different techniques, more likely to have no fear in approaching. That lack of fear is male aggression, testosterone and risk taking. Someone who has the balls to practice and play in a band in front of people well needs practice, talent and guts. Someone who sleeves their arms with tattoo's needs courage and a lack of fear of the pain or social repercussions. At the end of the day whether you think you are a bad boy, a good boy or a romantic boy you have to make a woman feel like a woman and part of doing that means being a 'man's man'. Masculinity. The lion kings of African prides roar loud, are powerful and aggressive. But ya know they still groom their females when lazing about in the heat of the day. To reveal your heart also takes courage.

    Women are attracted to elements of our aggression and risk taking just as we are attracted to elements of their femininity. I don't look like a bad boy at all. I have short hair, no tattoos or piercings and playing in bands is really just a social proof bonus. But I have had quite a few girls view me as a 'bad boy'. I only ever heard that after I was completely more successful and confident with women. It had nothing to do with what I looked like or what debauchery I may have got up to, although they can be viewed as exemplifying those male traits. I can be a bit naughty and cheeky, I have no fear in what I do. I have experimented with risk taking/adrenaline activities and I was good at sport so a competitive drive comes through. I always treat girls with respect but I also make no excuses for being a man. Jack Nicholson is a bad boy because he is a womanizer. Same with Johnny Depp, he's not really bad or mean, certainly hedonistic, he's more cool, but he's slept with some of the hottest woman and risked everything for Hollywood success. The guy in prison break is not attractive because he's in prison but because he's smart and courageous. It comes back to a great quote I read on here 'they can't hate you for being a man, but they can hate you for being a pussy'.


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