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Thread: How to break the HB glass ceiling

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    Default How to break the HB glass ceiling

    I wasn't sure where to post this but I figured here was the best place.

    There's a reason that phrases like 'treat them mean and keep them keen' and 'nice guys finish last' are so famous... just like there are reasons why every girl I was really into eventually left me and every girl I ever treated badly (not badly badly, but girls I could've taken or leaven) would've followed me to the end of the earth.

    I understand the problem clearly... my question is how do I break the mindset of treating girls I really like like princesses and treat them the same way as I do the girls i'm not crazy interested in?... it's like I can't treat them badly because I actually care about how they feel... if that makes sense? Don't get me wrong... I don't lavish them with gifts, or give them stupid lovey AFC attention, or get overly 'wet' with them... but there are reasons why this happens that I can't properly figure out or help, maybe even subconsciously.

    I think that this is the key to breaking the HB glass ceiling and getting a better standard of girl more regularly, maybe even finding another HB who I want to keep around all the time. Any thoughts and opinions would be greatly appreciated.
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    Default Re: How to break the HB glass ceiling

    I feel u because i always had the same problem. It was really discouraging and set me back a few times really badly.

    The main way is KEEP YOUR OPTIONS OPEN. As soon as u feel like your getting all clingy, GO AWAY...Leave her alone. Be busy... start something new to take up your time. Do not contact her as regularly as u did before. And go meet other women ASAP.

    The point of all this is that these things will lessen the pull she has on you. This way u can take it slow and keep up the strong fundamentals (cocky funny, alpha behavior etc...).

    In MY personal experience, a women takes longer to get attached in a long term relationship kind thing (if thats what your going for). Guys jump the gun which scares them away. The goal is to keep your own feelings from messing u up before SHE starts feeling same.

    Ps look up oneitis on here also
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    Default Re: How to break the HB glass ceiling

    Focus on 2 simple concepts

    First, tease them, test them. You want a girl who can hold her ground right? Tease her every chance you can, it's a fun way of showing you're not fawning over her and it sets you apart. And it's really not mean

    Second, screen them, especially the hot ones. Have a set of standards you want, intelligent, adventurous, nurturing, and ask subtle (or not subtle) questions to see if she meets these qualifications.

    It's things you're already doing with the girls who are in to you, you probably just haven't put it together. They want you because you've screened them and they really want to pass.
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    Default Re: How to break the HB glass ceiling

    Thanks for the replies guys... I suppose it's one of those things I'm just going to have to work on in real time... It's funny reading stuff on here because I get inspired and get the immediate urge to go out and hit the street and talk to women! I'll have to wait til weekend... a few of us are going to this big club in town that is half regular night club half lapdancing club so that's always a fun environment to run some stuff because there are legit reasons you could go that don't involve lapdancing and those girls are always fun to dry-run new techniques on :-)
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    Default Re: How to break the HB glass ceiling

    Quote Originally Posted by The Red Baron View Post
    Focus on 2 simple concepts

    First, tease them, test them. You want a girl who can hold her ground right? Tease her every chance you can, it's a fun way of showing you're not fawning over her and it sets you apart. And it's really not mean

    Second, screen them, especially the hot ones. Have a set of standards you want, intelligent, adventurous, nurturing, and ask subtle (or not subtle) questions to see if she meets these qualifications.

    It's things you're already doing with the girls who are in to you, you probably just haven't put it together. They want you because you've screened them and they really want to pass.
    This is good, I wont force myself to be attracted to some girl who just has the looks, shes got to have the personality to follow suit with.

    Dont waste your time, and having the experience of "what you dont want" or to see the red flags should help you in the future.

    Reflection on the notion that its something your doing and "not all women" using that stereotype is good, not all women are bitches and attention whores.

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    Default Re: How to break the HB glass ceiling

    Condition yourself to look past what a woman may think about the actions you take. Its all about creating a balance between comfort and breaking rapport that creates attraction with another person. Own your frame bro! Believe that you are in control of all the results that occur in your life and trust me your life will change. If you truly condition yourself to have this perception you will be that much more confident of a person which has alpha male written all over it. Good luck buddy and reply if you have any further questions.


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