Ok so heres the deal. I met this girl around August and we went on two dates and things were going pretty smoothly. We made plans to go on a third date but she had to cancel (and did so in appropriate time) due to family stuff. All's well. About a week later I asked again if she wanted to hang out and sleep over at my place. We made the plans and then on the day she was supposed to come over at she texts me about 5mins before I was expecting her to arrive saying that she got called into work earlier that day and it would be too late for her to come over because she had to work in the morning. She didn't tell me that she had to work the next day when we made the plans. I was upset because I was starting to like her a bit so I thought it would be best to punish her for not coming over it went like this:
HER: Yeah I have to work the next morning so I don't think I can make it
me: Well you could have told me that before
HER: I could have sworn I told you lady. It was one of the things I clearly remember when I was drunk (<-- we made the plans over the phone while she was drunk)
me: No... me the sober one, does not remember this.
HER: Oh well. I'm going to be downtown tomorrow, you should come out.
me: No. I made a girls night with my friends. I'm a well wanted woman. If you want me, you gotta book ahead and stick with the plan.
HER: Lol whateverr
me: Meh its your loss
I have to admit I was a bit upset at the time but I also wanted to DHV by making her feel a bit jealous and unavailable to just 'come when I'm called.' So to drive it home I decided to freeze her out for a bit to teach her a lesson that flaking out on me isn't cool. Anyway, its been about 4 days since that happened and she hasn't contacted me. I'm figuring its my move, but I'm not to sure how to recover. Advice?