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Thread: How do I make her miss me, when I see her everyday (Highschool)

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    Post How do I make her miss me, when I see her everyday (Highschool)

    Here's the situation. I've built rapport/comfort with this girl (HB 9/10) for over a year now, without building sexual tension, and I think I'm in the friend zone (which was the biggest mistake ever, but hey, I didn't know about this stuff until 3 months ago). I'm 18 and I'm in my last year of high school, so I guess you could call it high school game. This girl is 100% compatible with me, and I think she's perfect, so its kinda hard to get rid of this "one-itis" that I have. The reason I'm posting this is because I'm confused at the moment for two reasons.

    1) I'm not sure If I'm in the friend zone, because she gives me mixed signals.

    2)If I really am in the friend zone, how do I cut off contact with her if I see her everyday at school.

    A month ago I told her I was confused after telling her she was beautiful and funny (basically giving her compliments), and she replied with "I think we're friends!" This surprised me, because several of my friends thought that there was definitely something going on between the two of us. She later told me that she was naturally flirty (which I still can't quite accept). Since then I've been trying to cut off contact with her to get out of the zone, and exploring other options (which helped me take my mind off of her and i guess made her jealous as well. Recently at a party we met, and I basically let her approach me, which she did. As I flirted and danced with other girls in front of her, her approaches to me became more frequent, and she started following me wherever I went, even grabbing at my arm and tugging me. If it was any other girl, I would've made a move, but because of what she said last time ("I think we're friends!"), I didn't close. I'm still, confused, am I building attraction? What phase am I at now? Do I still continue to cut contact with her(i've only cut contact for 2 weeks now as much as possible)? What do I do now?

    The second more specific concern is, how do I cut contact with a girl I see everyday. She's in my classes, I see her in the hallways, and it makes it hard to cut contact. At the moment I never approach her, but I do smile when we make eye contact, and if she does approach me, I flirt with her. I'm also talking to other girls? Is there anything else I should be doing? Or am I doing something wrong? HELP!

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    Default Re: How do I make her miss me, when I see her everyday (Highschool)

    You don't have to cut contact in this situation.
    But you DO have to be willing to risk losing her as a "friend", and start almost as if you just met her.

    Flirt, flirt, flirt!

    Teasing & bantering, razzing her, calling her little nicknames... (Sassy, little brat, nerdball, dork, goofy, crazyface, etc...)

    Basically, just introduce FUN into the equation.

    Then, you have to make your intent known... which is: You're attracted to & interested in her as MORE THAN a friend. But you can't just "tell her" that.

    You have to express it through body language & flirting.

    Think of ways to spark curiosity. Do & say things to affect her emotionally. (And stay out of rapport for a while!!)

    Use cliffhangers in texting, or emails... "Ya know, I can't stop thinking about..."

    or

    "I just found out something REALLY interesting..."

    or

    "Hmmm... I need to ask you something..." etc...

    Then wait for 20-30 minutes after she replies, before responding back.

    That does 2 things:

    #1- gives you time to think of something to say; Which should be playful & humorous or complimentary about her personality... but not about her looks.

    #2- stirs her curiosity- which builds attraction because it affects her on an emotional level. (Think of "butterflies"... that's what she'll get while she's waiting for your reply)



    So... remember; this is what it's gonna take:
    -Risk losing her as a friend
    -Being playful, flirty & FUN
    -Make your intent & interest known
    -Spark curiosity/build attraction
    -Affect her emotionally to flip her attraction triggers.


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    Default Re: How do I make her miss me, when I see her everyday (Highschool)

    Thanks for the reply! Should I still let her approach me most of the time though?

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    Default Re: How do I make her miss me, when I see her everyday (Highschool)

    Actually, if she approaches YOU more often, that's not a bad thing. It get's her to "invest" in you & is kinda like her chasing you. (Which is a cool thing.)

    But, I WOULD recommend approaching her too.
    Again; you want to express some interest, as well as making your intent known.

    Don't over-do it & cause her to see you as needy or clingy, but definitely reciprocate some of the investment.

    The more you flirt & build attraction, the more she will approach you anyway.
    You want her to reach a level of interest to where she WANTS to be around you & with you.

    But keep in mind that a girl will lose interest if she has to put in ALL the effort, or make ALL the investments of time, effort, energy, emotions etc.


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    Default Re: How do I make her miss me, when I see her everyday (Highschool)

    I agree a hundred percent. Attraction is a careful balance of developing comfort with a female and at the same time creating an equal amount of breaking rapport. This will cause her to go through an emotional roller coaster that will cause her to be naturally attracted to you. Be open to talk to other females, but do not flirt with them. Just show her that your comfortable with talking with members of the opposite sex. Get other females to chase after you but show that you value the time your target gives you. You have to learn the balance between playing hard to get and investing too much of yourself with her. If all else fails and she truly at the end only sees you as a friend....DONT LET THAT BOTHER YOU. Some of the best hook ups I have got were through girls that became good friends with me and ended up becoming great wing woman or I was able to mingle with her friends through her. Sometimes by showing you are an attractive guy to other people she knows, will also make her realize something she potentially lost. Hope this helps a little buddy and reply if you have any further questions. Good Luck!

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    Default Re: How do I make her miss me, when I see her everyday (Highschool)

    What if she reacts badly to my extra touching and flirtiness


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