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    Cyro33 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default First date went perfect, now I'm confused. Advice?

    I recently met a HB9 on facebook. I had been interested in her for quite a while, but just recently had a reason to talk to her. Fast forward a week and she agrees to go on a double date to a baseball game.

    This was the first time meeting her in person, but everything went very well. She gave me a look around the 7th inning, and I made my move. We kissed and after that she was all over me. She gave me that look probably 5 or so more times throughout the game, and everytime I would initiate accordingly. We made out a few times that night, and it ended with a KClose.

    I think things would have escalated further, but I was unable to drive her home even though I had brought her to the game. Her friend was underage and fairly drunk, so the HB9 had to drive her home.

    She said "see you soon" as she was leaving, then I asked her if she wanted to hang out the following night. She agreed, and we went our separate ways.

    The next night I didn't hear from her until late. I called her 2x about 2 hours apart, but got no response. She said her brother was in the hospital and she was with him all day. She apologized for not responding, and said she may be able to hang out the next night. I told her she had no need to apologize, and hope I'll see her tomorrow.

    After that I didn't talk to her for 4 days using advice from a friend. When I finally do contact her again to set up a 2nd date, she tells me she's been really busy lately, and will be "really busy for the next couple of weeks".

    I realize that this means she's probably no longer interested, but I'm unsure of what went wrong. Did I push too hard in the early stages? Is there any way to salvage this and get a 2nd date? I'm new to the forums, so try not to be too brutal. Haha.

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    Jmoney is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: First date went perfect, now I'm confused. Advice?

    Be honest with yourself when you answer this next question. When you went for the move on her, was she a little drunk or did she have a clear head? If she was drunk then more than likely she may feel as though she was probably not in the right state of mind when she was around you and now she may think that you think she is easy. To counter this, she may now try to play hard to get to counter that mental thought she may have of you towards her. If she had a clear mind (honestly) then I would not stress too much. Maybe she has been busy lately and it happens to all of us. It just happens to have been timed with occurring after you guys hung out. I would contact her early on a morning where you know you can go out and schedule a hang between you and your friends. Then invite her and tell her to bring her friends to have a large hang out. Make it something that maybe doesn't involve drinking too much but instead a more sociable event. Right now I like to use Sunday Football as a thing to get a whole bunch of people organized. Don't ask her if she likes football. Just assume she does and invite her to the gathering between you and your friends. Hope this helps buddy and if you have any further questions reply to this and good luck!

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    Cyro33 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: First date went perfect, now I'm confused. Advice?

    Well she had a few beers, but she's a bartender on the weekends, so there's no way she was drunk off that. She could have had a buzz going on. She even initiated once, which was strange to me since we were in a pretty public setting. Should I keep working my text game then?

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    Default Re: First date went perfect, now I'm confused. Advice?

    Yes. If she was willing to initiate with you and she was truly not under the influence of alcohol, then I would try to schedule another hang out with her again. She obviously works on the weekend so try to schedule on times you know she will be available on. Again I would try to create the next meet as a group hang out so it would be more of a comfortable setting for her to hang out. I would not recommend trying to invite her to a movie night or eating out. This is too much pressure on her especially if she was not totally comfortable with you yet. Create an event with friends and invite her. Create the mentality that you are going to have a good time with your friends and if she shows up then it will be a bonus. This will give you higher mental value which in turn will increase your confidence and lower your likelihood of coming of as too needy over text messages. Hope this helps buddy and if you have any further questions. Hit me up.

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    Default Re: First date went perfect, now I'm confused. Advice?

    Alright ill give that a shot, thanks man.


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