I recently met a HB9 on facebook. I had been interested in her for quite a while, but just recently had a reason to talk to her. Fast forward a week and she agrees to go on a double date to a baseball game.
This was the first time meeting her in person, but everything went very well. She gave me a look around the 7th inning, and I made my move. We kissed and after that she was all over me. She gave me that look probably 5 or so more times throughout the game, and everytime I would initiate accordingly. We made out a few times that night, and it ended with a KClose.
I think things would have escalated further, but I was unable to drive her home even though I had brought her to the game. Her friend was underage and fairly drunk, so the HB9 had to drive her home.
She said "see you soon" as she was leaving, then I asked her if she wanted to hang out the following night. She agreed, and we went our separate ways.
The next night I didn't hear from her until late. I called her 2x about 2 hours apart, but got no response. She said her brother was in the hospital and she was with him all day. She apologized for not responding, and said she may be able to hang out the next night. I told her she had no need to apologize, and hope I'll see her tomorrow.
After that I didn't talk to her for 4 days using advice from a friend. When I finally do contact her again to set up a 2nd date, she tells me she's been really busy lately, and will be "really busy for the next couple of weeks".
I realize that this means she's probably no longer interested, but I'm unsure of what went wrong. Did I push too hard in the early stages? Is there any way to salvage this and get a 2nd date? I'm new to the forums, so try not to be too brutal. Haha.