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    Default What went wrong?

    Hello,

    Last week meat a girl at a party, we hit it off really well. On Friday we went out my friends with her friends at a club where her and I danced talked and had fun.

    Saturday morning she wakes up, talks to me on Facebook, calls me from Skype with camera before she even gets out of bed, asks me where we gonna go tonight, we talked for a couple of hours and she said come with us we are going to place X and I said no I can't because I arranged to go to place Y with my friends so we will meet later on in the night. As soon as I arrive at place Y I get a message from her, she comes, she dances with me, teases me by biting my ear loaf, grabbing my ass and what not The we went our ways and then she came and found me at a different club that I went to.

    Sunday she texts me, I didn't see the msg and after 5 minutes she calls, again we go on skype talk etc etc we say we should all go out tonight, so I tell her lets go to place Z she says she will see, I text her and she says she can't make it lets arrange something for Monday. Monday comes and I don't look for her neither does she, Tuesday comes and still nothing from both ends but my friend calls and says he arranged for me her him and her friend to go for drinks tonight. Turns out her friend fell asleep, so I call her, doesn't pick up the phone, then after a while when me and my friend are at the bar I see her on FB on-line and I text her why aren't you here, sees the msg and doesn't reply.

    What went wrong?

    PS: she said that she likes to be ignored by a man, she doesn't like being told to her face by someone that he likes her, she doesn't want the pressure of a relationship, she always gets what she wants and the game is played by her rules. All weekend this girl was courting me like hell and she was doing all the little things (bite her lips, stand inform of Skype camera with towel after shower, sexual innuendo all the time) to get a response out of me and when I didn't react she got all excited because she said "you are a real man, I feel anxious, no man made me feel anxious before"

    Thanks

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    Default Re: What went wrong?

    Not an expert but she wants to be ignored.. The girl clearly has her own game. Maybe by texting her on FB you kind of killed some of that aloofness about you that she was so attracted to

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    Default Re: What went wrong?

    Yep. Don't respond at all anymore. She was chasing you and if she is keen should chase again. If she hadn't called or texted by the weekend maybe send her a short message 'hey, we're going out here sat, come along'

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    Default Re: What went wrong?

    First of all, she sounds needy as hell and you should just feel lucky you dodged that bullet.
    Second, it sounds like she was just bored and looking for some entertainment. Playing with men is a favorite past time of women and sometimes we just like to mess with you guys because we can.
    If you run into her again say "hi" but get her name wrong. Best of luck!

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    Default Re: What went wrong?

    Quote Originally Posted by whitedragon View Post
    Yep. Don't respond at all anymore. She was chasing you and if she is keen should chase again. If she hadn't called or texted by the weekend maybe send her a short message 'hey, we're going out here sat, come along'
    Don't text her - it's a waste of time and you'll be that story she tells her friends about how you just won't get the hint and how pathetic you are. Don't be that story. Leave her wondering if she made a mistake.

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    Default Re: What went wrong?

    Or you could really mess with her and whenever you run into her again pretend like you forgot who she was Lol. It would probably turn her on

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    Default Re: What went wrong?

    I will not text her again for sure but what should I do if:

    1. She texts me, sends me a msg on FB, calls me or Skypes me?

    2. My friend arranges a night out with her friend and their friends which means she will be there as well. Should I go?

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    Default Re: What went wrong?

    Based on what I just learned from my own post lol.. To 1 ignore them and 2 (hate to be a douche to your friend) but showing up late would leave some anticipation I'm guessing.

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    Default Re: What went wrong?

    You probably won't have to worry about her texting you until the next time she gets bored, or if she's wondering if she still has you on a string. Any response is going to play into her game, but if you do it right you can turn it into your game and have her guessing at the rules. If you respond, definitely don't let her have control of the conversation. Don't respond right away to texts or facebook messages. If she skypes you, seem distracted (but not rude - then she'll know she has an affect on you).
    If your friend arranges a group night out and you don't go, you'll look like a pussy. Don't ignore her but definitely don't give her much attention. Like I said before, say "hi" but get her name wrong. Give her friends attention. Make her wonder if she made a mistake.

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    Default Re: What went wrong?

    Say I can't chat right now, I'm with someone


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