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    Default Re: Need Help, Straight Up Amateur

    If she's irritated then let her come to you. If you take too long, however, she could move on to someone who's gonna pay her attention. You definitely don't want to come off as desperate or needy again though, so if you message her WAIT FOR HER TO REPLY before sending another message. There's a very fine line - you gotta give her attention but don't smother her. You got show her you're interested but not desperate. Best of luck!

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    Default Re: Need Help, Straight Up Amateur

    Appreciate your help guys but I don't think you understand my question. I'm asking if she is hinting at me to back off or if she said that she noticed us being online at the same time as a way to flirt with me.

    I understood you, I just didn't respond because your question is irrelevant (no disrespect meant).

    And this isn't a personal attack on you, but I see so many guys on here who repeatedly blow it because all they're focusing on is IOI's or IOD's. You know what else this is called? Feeding off her state, which doesn't work especially if you believe in the law of state transference.

    There are other guys on here (and girls :P) who can better tell you what to do situationally. I'm here to take you to the next level, and the next level is a different mindset entirely. You're worried about her perspective, which ultimately doesn't matter because women like men who don't change themselves to accommodate others. Your frame is your frame and others shouldn't affect that. If you want her, take her, and quit worrying about whether she's displaying IOI's or IOD's, because honestly, you could send her a message right now and as long as it has no trace of a weak frame she would respond.

    The world is yours. Have that mindset and this girl would've asked if she could come over.
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    Default Re: Need Help, Straight Up Amateur

    None taken. And that's excellent advice I'm struggling with inner psychology of it all. Thanks for explaining it though, I'll work on that.


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