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    Default Need Help, Straight Up Amateur

    I've been talking to this girl who I've known since I was younger. Haven't seen each other in over 5 years but she always chats me on Facebook at random times.She always initiates the conversations when we haven't talked in a while.

    Never pursued her before because I'd always be with another girl and she lives a couple hours away from me..But this time I went for it. She gave me her # without any resistance and I worked to move the conversation from FBchat to texting.

    Our convos, in my opinion, have gone really well and at one point she even mentioned that she wanted to hang out before I started getting busy with my new job.

    After the 2nd day of talking to her I decided my next strategy would be to not contact her unless she decided to text me first. Got nothing from her, but as soon as I went on FBchat she msged me.

    HB10:
    what the heck do you do online all day? lol

    Me:
    What? My ass ain't online all day!
    U been spying on me

    HB10:
    nah. it's just whenver im on, you happen to be on
    lol

    Me:
    Lol a nigga can't be on coincidentally when you're on?

    10 minutes pass by

    Me:
    Does it bother you or something

    More time passes
    Me:
    ......?

    HB10:
    oh. sorry
    nah
    was just wondering
    ima ttyl, gotta do something

    I know I came off defensive, tried to play it cool but as an amateur I failed..stupid

    Bottom line.. Does she think I'm a creep and need to back off? Or was she coming on to me and I blew it?

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    Default Re: Need Help, Straight Up Amateur

    Me:
    Lol a nigga can't be on coincidentally when you're on?

    10 minutes pass by

    Does it bother you or something

    More time passes
    Me:
    ......?


    Calm down, lol. Next time just stick with the first sentence and wait it out. She'll get back to you, she was probably just busy atm.
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    Exclamation Re: Need Help, Straight Up Amateur

    Yeah I agree.. but it said that she read what I wrote so I lost my patience..

    But what's the bottom line? Am I a creeper to her or not?

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    Default Re: Need Help, Straight Up Amateur

    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Need Help, Straight Up Amateur

    Appreciate your help guys but I don't think you understand my question. I'm asking if she is hinting at me to back off or if she said that she noticed us being online at the same time as a way to flirt with me.

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    Default Re: Need Help, Straight Up Amateur

    I don't think she thinks you're a creeper. Maybe a little needy, definitely just wait for her to respond next time.

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    Default Re: Need Help, Straight Up Amateur

    Me:
    Does it bother you or something

    More time passes
    Me:
    ......?

    HB10:
    oh. sorry
    nah
    was just wondering
    ima ttyl, gotta do something


    this seems to be a clear indication of her loosing intrest an you can see why, you DLV'd yourself by appearing to needy, 3 messages demanding a response is never good and she left.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Need Help, Straight Up Amateur

    She probably didn't want to sound too needy herself, so she used that to initiate the conversation. If she wanted you to back off she wouldn't have messaged you. Maybe help her out by initiating the conversation next time.

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    Default Re: Need Help, Straight Up Amateur

    Quote Originally Posted by nik's chik View Post
    She probably didn't want to sound too needy herself, so she used that to initiate the conversation. If she wanted you to back off she wouldn't have messaged you. Maybe help her out by initiating the conversation next time.
    Duly noted on the neediness.. I was planning on freezing it up for a couple days so offset that neediness. Should I reconsider?

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    Default Re: Need Help, Straight Up Amateur

    OMG!!! Cody and i gave you key points of what you did wrong, but what you'r about to do, is completely upto you. I would reccomend you do some research on here before you do anything, take the wrong advice and you have lost all chances, take the right advice and you will be successful.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.


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