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Thread: Handling old conquest that slept with my roommate

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    Default Handling old conquest that slept with my roommate

    Hey guys,

    So theres this HB7 who I gamed for 3 days, fcked over the course of 3 more, then expressed my wish to keep things casual and move on.

    After that point, I turned down 2 opportunities to hang out. She then comes over (invited by roommate) and flirts a little, but I was tired and went to bed early. She slept with my roomie that night, then came over and again a week later.

    I really don't care, but I chose to treat her with mild indifference. I have not been my normal fun, energetic self towards her, and she interpreted this as a sign of hurt feelings.

    Her text:
    "Hey im sorry if i confused or upset you or anything by my erratic actions recently...i tend to act on impulse and dont think things through "

    It is important to handle this well because she is popular amongst a great deal of the girls that I party with or are in/near my social circle. I certainly dont want to appear as some pining little b1tch with hurt feelings. I think it is good that she will likely tell some of those other girls about me being good in bed. However, it would be bad if she included that I was in any way broken hearted.

    Any ideas on a plan to combat this? I have not handled similar situations well in the past, so I'm definitely looking to learn.

    Thanks!

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    Default Re: Handling old conquest that slept with my roommate

    Brush it off, and don't sleep with her again.

    You sleep with her again, you become the guy who'll settle for a piece of pun

    Tell her something like "it's totally cool, I didn't really see us happening anyway but you're alot of fun and I'm glad we're friends"

    That puts the frame in your hands. She made the mistake, she feels bad about it, so she won't be mad at you

    Just dont at all show her you're mad.

    And don't sleep with her again.

    Do that, and she'll talk you up to her friends and you'll gain status.

    This is actually a good situation for you
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    Default Re: Handling old conquest that slept with my roommate

    Oh - and more importantly, become your normal self again. She has to believe you are unaffected. "Unaffected", repeat that to yourself. Be fun, be cool.

    You do that and what I said above, she'll want you, she'll wonder why or how you rejected her (she's not used to that), and she'll flirt with you and try to get you back in bed.

    Don't do it. Trust me on all this and it will work out beautifully
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    Default Re: Handling old conquest that slept with my roommate

    Wow, Red Baron, I thanked you for the advice, but I just wanted to tell you and the readers of this post that it worked like a charm!

    I have had to literally pry her off of me and she is mad trying to get back in my pants. This has paid off in terms of social proof, already feeling the benefits.

    I'm hoping she doesn't get spiteful too soon about my firm friendship only rule. In the meantime, she has been overtly flirtatious towards me while I'm surrounded by a few of the girls I wish to game. Major social proof when I can stand there and say no (without actually saying the word no, of course ).

    Thanks again!

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    Default Re: Handling old conquest that slept with my roommate

    Red Baron knows his stuff. You did good to take his advice
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."


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