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Thread: Need help finding where I went wrong when things were going well.

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    Default Need help finding where I went wrong when things were going well.

    Hi Folks,

    I'm pretty new to this sort of community and this is my first post but here's the situation.
    On the first day of meeting the lass I've got my eye on I meet her house-mates and they inform me that "they've heard a lot about me" then that evening a few of our mutual friends go clubbing I end up taking her home holding hands etc. and get a "I'm really glad I met you" text.
    The next day we agree to meet up for a couple of hours and a guy from her course tags along and is so possessive he even attempts to block me walking next to her. Our group of friends all go out again tonight, she spends all evening avoiding the guy from her course (who again attempts to stop any other male being near her) and yet when he says he's leaving she goes with him. Do I have a chance at recovery and if so what would you recommend?

    Cheers for the assistance

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    Default Re: Need help finding where I went wrong when things were going well.

    Maybe he was just giving her a ride?

    Or maybe he's her sure thing she's relying on because she's not sure she can get better

    Either way, you do better by being better.

    It's really difficult to push that guy away, it takes some super strong alpha, a strong frame, and strong game to pull it off without being a dick - so don't try (it's nothing we can teach)

    So the normal PUA route - pretend he doesn't exist. If you bring him up and ask about him, it shows jealousy and insecurity.

    Note: Do not show jealousy or insecurity

    Show confidence, be unaffected. Be strong, be fun. Tease her. Disqualify her, lines like "man you're so much fun, too bad you're not my type", and "too bad we'd never work out because of xxx"

    and tease her by text. Don't worry about him, try to set up a date with the two of you, and go from there
    Never need praise, sympathy, or approval



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    Default Re: Need help finding where I went wrong when things were going well.

    Thanks for the quick response,

    I'll bear that in mind, I mean I don't actually see him as a threat its more an issue just trying to bypass him as you said without coming off as a D1ck as he keeps seeming to pop up whenever she gets any attention from anyone who isn't him.

    Just glad to know I'm more or less doing the right thing, cheers for the advice Red Baron.


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