Hey everyone I need your advice. So yeah Im in the friend zone right now and it sucks. I've known this girl for 3 years now and it hasnt been until the past month that we got really close. I always found her attractive but never made a move because she always had a boyfriend. So 2 years ago I made out with her sister and this past year I made out with her best friend. Recently she has been bringing up that I hooked up with them like with resent. One night we went out with her friends into the city and one of her guy friends asked her something. Then she looked at me (I saw with the corner of my eye as I was talking to her friend) and she said loud enough for me to here her "No, he hooked up with my sister and best friend." So I am pretty sure that the guy she said this to asked her if me and her were going out or something because I am an outsider to her group of friends. But that same day she texted me and said "um you are like my best friend". I am telling you this now guys that she is kind of a needy girl. She hates being alone and I know this first hand because I have slept over her house a bunch of times because she was alone or she wanted someone to hang out with (big mistake by me). So I have asked around and people have told me to make her chase me. To make her initiate texts and stuff and take awhile to answer or not answer at all to remind her of my value and to make her like me. This actually worked the past two days because she had texted me and I took awhile to answer so she texted me again like to get my attention. So these past two days it seemed like it worked and she also initiated the conversation yesterday with "ughhh im bored." So clearly she was thinking about me and wanted to talk to me. But this morning she was at work and I texted her "how was work going" and she said "Busy" so I told her I would talk to her later because she was busy. After that she hasn't texted me all day and I haven't texted her (this is killing me right now). So I don't know if the scarcity principle of not texting is working right now. Do you think maybe she's home waiting for me to text her? But if I do won't it make me look needy? This whole making a girl chase is great but do all women react the right way to this? Do you think maybe she likes it when guys text her all the time? She actually was seeing this guy from jersey that she met at starbucks and she told me that they were texting each other every morning but then on Saturday & Sunday he didn't text her and said he was busy (acting distant), and this was bothering her so she was going to text him "are you mad or whats wrong" making her look needy. I don't know what to do here, I actually really like her and would like to go out with her. I haven't felt like this for a girl in a very very long time. I need your help guys.