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    Default Ehh, she has a BF

    This girl came into my restaurant a few days ago, turns out we're FB friends, so I messaged her...

    Me: since you're too shy, i'll be the one to say it... i think you were in my restaurant a while ago.

    HB: haha, yeah I was
    HB: Its a small world

    Me: thought so haha. i think i only remembered because you were checking me out and i called you out on it

    HB: Lies hahaha

    Me: *rolls eyes* mhmm haha. at least we've seen each other, now i can say that i've actually met you.. sort of, & that you're not just a random FB friend. ehh, ok, you're still kind of random

    HB: Lol so are you! (:

    Me: we can change that though when we go out for coffee

    HB: well i do have a boyfriend but ill keep your offer in mind (:
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    So where should I go from here? I'm not that eager to meet up with her since I have a few other HB's I've been talking to. I'd still like to leave the convo with her wanting more though.

    Thanks, fellas!

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    Default Re: Ehh, she has a BF

    Something I just noticed... her relationship statues is single? Now at the same time, I know her boyfriend and her have been on and off for a while now. So maybe.. I don't know, it's something to take into consideration.

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    Default Re: Ehh, she has a BF

    I've noticed lots of "dating people" on FB will leave their status as "single"... Just to keep things simple & not get bombarded with questions by their friends.

    But, one suggestion for handling the BF comment is, give her a shout back like:
    "Well, I didn't say I wanted to sleep with you... I was just talking about coffee. You're gonna have to slow things down there chickee-poo!! haha!"

    It playfully calls her out for assuming something & jumping the gun, and it's still flirty & confident.... with just a hint of cockiness.



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    Default Re: Ehh, she has a BF

    What if she said that she is in LTR for about 2 years and she loves her BF, but she gave me few IOI's, and i texted her and she responds and after few msgs, she said don't want to have problems with BF? And she talks all the time about him, how he is perfect and stuff like that ...


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