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    Reds22 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default How do I avoid getting stuck?

    This has happened to me a few times and I want to know how to stop it. Sometimes I goto the bar by myself to sarge. I see some girl who I think is nice and I'm getting some IOIs but somethings not clicking, she just for whatever reason doesn't meet my standards or turn me on. So I politely excuse myself from the conversation and go hang out elsewhere in the bar, goto the washroom, enjoy the show or something. But then the girl keeps coming back. Then it becomes a 'chase me' game and the girl just can't take a hint and I'm saying things like "No I don't want you to buy me a drink." or "No I don't want to go home with you" and (I ran into this problem before, I tell her I'm by myself so I can't just say 'oh my friends are looking for me') I don't want to be rude and I'm using body language and words to tell her politely that I'm not interested. Can I get some suggestions as to what to say to get her off my case?

    (Since I already told her I'm single, and I'm not at the bar with friends)

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    Default Re: How do I avoid getting stuck?

    just leave the club. seems like you hit on the wrong girls?

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    Default Re: How do I avoid getting stuck?

    Believe it or not, "Negative" body language is a big factor of building attraction.
    When you turn away from a girl or walk off, it DOES initiate "chase mode" quite frequently.

    So, if you do that with the girls you ARE interested, you should have similar results as far as, having them want to know more about you & begin qualifying themselves to you.

    As hard as it is to do that when you're talking to a girl you WANT to pursue further, that's exactly what works like magic!

    So keep that in mind, if you're finding yourself having trouble with the ones you're actually gaming, while the ones you're not interested in are latching on.


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    Reds22 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: How do I avoid getting stuck?

    Damn thanks tmalonten thats awesome. Regardless of the body language stuff I was telling her that I wasn't interested and I didn't want her buying me drinks nor did I want to go home with her. Should I have just said "I'm not interested, leave me alone."

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    Default Re: How do I avoid getting stuck?

    What I've done in similar situations is, go ahead & make friends with her. Build rapport (not attraction).

    You can turn that into social proof, as well as meet some of her other friends, which could be beneficial.

    OR... if you're not up for doing that with a few particular ones; always be polite, but tell her you have to bail... and then actually DO leave.

    I always try to remember that even the girls who are "2's" & "3's" probably have some hot little friends in the 7-8 range or higher. So, being friendly is always going to be a good thing. (She could very well tell her "cute" friends about you & even help introduce them.)

    And there's nothing more solid to a girl than "another girl's approval".



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    Default Re: How do I avoid getting stuck?

    Ahh very true. Excellent advice. Thank you man!


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