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    Ever since joining these forums, I haven't tried to get a new girlfriend yet, because I kind of wanted to get all the information I could before trying it out. The main thing I learned is not to show neediness, that was a huge problem in my past. There is a girl. We have no classes together but I might see her sometime and I want to have a plan ready whenever I have the opportunity. I have approach anxiety so I want to start a conversation in a way besides randomly saying "hi" or something, if that's possible. Basically, I want some advice on how to go on about getting this girl interested in talking to me and texting. Thanks in advance.

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    Set your frame that you are the prize and tease/Neg her, DHV yourself subtly (in NOOOOO way should it even remotely hint at the possibility of seeming like you are trying to get her approval) keep an air of superiority and get her to qualify herself. Also check out some of the threads (just search college game) there's a lot of discussions going on around the forum.
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    I know how to tease, but not really DHV (are those synonymous?). I always feel like if I look like I don't need her approval, she will think I'm not interested and just move on to someone else, but I'll do it anyway. But how do I go on about actually talking to her? I haven't talked to her in my life except at a football game where (for some reason) she said "You look familiar, have we talked before?" and I was like no and blah blah blah (Ugh, I wish I kept talking!!). But I'll take this all into consideration, thank you. If anyone else has more tips, that would be appreciated!

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    Default Re: New Target

    does she smile when she sees you still in the halls?

    Do you have any classes with her?

    walking away might have intrigued her as well potentially. She could be feeling a lil nervous as to why you didnt talk to her. so ball is in your court. it also could have been a sh1t test to see how you reacted potentially if you were over bearing it could have hurt you.

    Remember your the senior she is a sophomore. Girls at that age are looking to date the older dude on campus, so use it to your advantage. Remember that girls at this age do care very much about social status. you dont have to be big man on campus but not being like every other dude trying so hard will set you apart. Chat up her friends as well. Chat up random girls at school wherever. Get to know people. Have you read rules of the game yet?

    i just started and it has already helped.

    A big mistake i made was being an outright d1ck to some of her friends. I called one a duck and quacked at her, which was cruel in hindsight. Needless to say the girl hated me for it and would cock block instantly any one of her friends.

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    Basically teasing/negging is pointing out her imperfections (only her behaviors and choices, never her appearance) - temporarily lowering her value.

    Whereas DHV raises your value in her eyes - usually by triggering attraction switches (telling stories or running routines that show: your ability to emote, you as the leader of men, you as a caretaker of loved ones, that you are desired by other women, and general social proof (popularity and outgoing-ness))

    Yeah man ^ as a senior you're already set up nicely to get her to chase you. Don't show too much interest in her and set a lot of hoops for her to jump through. Set your inner frame that she has to prove herself to you - once she's doing that she'll be all yours
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