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Thread: Need quick input!? Am I over reacting?

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    Default Need quick input!? Am I over reacting?

    I've been messaging this one girl for a while now. We met at a party some months back. Anyways, she invites me to go to her drama play across town, and I end up going, pretty much to the other side of town, paid 10$ to sit through an hour of what I thought was a cult initiation ceremony, and at the end of it all, all I get is a text "Thanks for coming". Enough to say, I was pretty disappointed that I had put all this time and effort into seeing her to get a lousy text. Comments? Advice?

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    Default Re: Need quick input!? Am I over reacting?

    Yes over-reacting. It was her night, she probably had a lot to think about and with so much going on in her head you can't expect her to jump off stage and be wowed by you. I know this from playing in bands that I can't concentrate on girls because my priority is music, performance and equipment (luckily this usually makes the girls try harder). If your texting someone for months and have not met up you have sort of friendzoned yourself anyway. I always try meet up and escalate things pretty quickly. I would have also said 'sure I'll try come, sounds fun' and then not showed up and hope she contacts later 'how come you didn't make it?'. Plus it is a lot of effort with little reward or 1 on 1 time. I would test her on some texts - start dropping in sexual or relationship innuendo or ambiguity. See how she responds whether favorably or negatively. At least she thanked you for coming

    I guess the question is why are you putting in time and effort texting a girl you met months ago at all? Why did you not escalate to a date right after the party? You can't be dissapointed at her because you seem to have not taken the lead on anything romantically.

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    Default Re: Need quick input!? Am I over reacting?

    To me its like she barely knows u. People have friends coming through their lives all the time. And some girls especially text constantly. Even if they text u all the time, it doesnt mean their attached to u. That's what personal meet ups are for.

    If u have met up at all or there is more to it than that, please post again.
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