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Thread: Salvaging a situation where she only hung out for like 10 minutes...

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    Default Salvaging a situation where she only hung out for like 10 minutes...

    New to PUA, so any pointers will be extremely valued.

    So, there's this HB9, the number close and the following texting were going great (thanks again for the articles on text game), she was always asking when I'm out and that we should hang out. Eventually we met up in this club (made her come find me), and got a drink for 5-10 minutes tops then she said she needed to get back to her friends - instantly texting me that she's sorry. Been texting since, her asking if I out but without the 'conviction' that she used to.

    Really could use some help with my next move

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    Default Re: Salvaging a situation where she only hung out for like 10 minutes...

    Go out with her again, just be prepared.

    She was obviously in to you to begin with, maybe she forgot some of that confidence and enthusiasm that she first saw

    So next time, make sure you're ready, be social, look around for ways to dhv, tease her, kino and touch, etc. make sure you leave her wanting more not less
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    Default Re: Salvaging a situation where she only hung out for like 10 minutes...

    i would've given you advice, but it think the red baron nailed it pretty good, just be ready for the first date, make sure your prepared for success
    http://www.puaforums.com/dating-advi...checklist.html
    oh, one more thing,i never kiss girls on the first date anymore to avoid buyers remorse, but thats your call

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    Default Re: Salvaging a situation where she only hung out for like 10 minutes...

    I would have to disagree with not kissing on a first date. If you are getting
    to know her, having fun with her, and there is sexual tension between the
    two of you then it is only natural that you are going to want to kiss her.
    Also I make the date kinda special, nothing too fancy or expensive but
    I do put some personal effort and thought into it. It is not just me inviting
    her over trying to funnel a bunch of alcohol down her throat.

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    Default Re: Salvaging a situation where she only hung out for like 10 minutes...

    i'm just saying i have had experiences with buyers remorse and it is a pain in the @ss to deal with!! she may kiss you while she's caught up in the moment and then later she will keep thinking of why she shouldn't have done it, vs making her wait, if she wants the kiss before you give it to her, she will think she made the right decision, because in the days leading up to it, she was thinking "wouldn't it be great if this guy would kiss me", but do what you feel will work best for you, don't make a big deal out of it if she doesn't want to kiss you, just pretend like nothing happened and countinue gaming until you feel she is ready for your next attempt (on d2)

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    Default Re: Salvaging a situation where she only hung out for like 10 minutes...

    Yes I completely agree that you should make her want the kiss before
    you give it to her and that is exactly what I do. The difference is that
    I feel it does not take a whole date to make her want to kiss.

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    Default Re: Salvaging a situation where she only hung out for like 10 minutes...

    Cheers for your input lads, the link to Buyer's Remorse was very eyeopening - think I've been guilty of causing it far too often in my AFC days!

    My next question is how would you go about setting up the next date - the first proper official one(by text)?

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    Default Re: Salvaging a situation where she only hung out for like 10 minutes...

    definately plan the date before you text her about it, not planning is planning to fail. try to find out some of her preferences (what kind of date would she most enjoy) plan the date,find out when she's available, ask her to go with you, don't mention to her that its a date. your just having dinner with her or going somewhere with her (right ) it realy is that easey,btw make sure it works with your scheduale (don't cancel any plans to go on a date with her) oh, and plan something to do if she doesn't show up (have a good time with or without her) good luck!


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