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Thread: First text reply after 4 N-close at the same night

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    Default First text reply after 4 N-close at the same night

    Hello everyone, hope ya'll having a good weekend
    So I was hanging out last night at the bar with my friend how came from Buffalo with his gf. we were setting at the table and I went to the bar to grab a drink. while I was waiting for the bartender to take my order, there was HB7 a little bit far on my right was staring at me. So we made eye contact, I smiled and she did then she came closer to me with cigaret in her hand. once she became close to me I told her lighter? she smiled and said yes please then I light her cig then I asked about her name and we talked a little bit then my friend's gf came and I introduced her. Later the HB7 friend's came I talked to them and buy them a shot. Then I told her: that I got go back to my friends but I like you energy so give me your number maybe we can hang out later. she gave me her number. Then I N-close 3 more girls but she was the only one who replied to me this morning.
    I text her this at the end of the night: " hey it was nice meeting you hopefully you had a good night after a busy week" because she told me at the bar that she is doing a double major and she cant go out a lot because she is very busy. she sent me this morning " hey thanks you too"
    I think I hadn't built enough attraction.
    should I text her something today or what should I do?
    help guys she was the first girl who replied to my text since long time ago.
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    Default Re: First text reply after 4 N-close at the same night

    Alright am sorry I know that's a long post so am going to make it shorter.
    So basically I took that girls number at the bar. Then at the end of the night I txed her "hey it was nice meeting you hopefully you had a good time after a busy week" she replied the next day "Hey thanks you too!" now what should I do to bullied attraction before I ask her out.
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    Default Re: First text reply after 4 N-close at the same night

    Best thing to text them that night, your name only, ie, "Jason"

    Leave it there, wait 2-3 days, then text

    I've lost a lot of numbers doing exactly what you did. It's cliche, but yes wait

    Then text her a joke, or reopen with a nickname

    Do not text anything like "hey how ya doing", keep it light and playful

    Just be aware, 2/3-3/4 of numbers flake, so don't stop getting more. Follow up with her, just don't worry if you don't see the others it's normal
    Never need praise, sympathy, or approval



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    Default Re: First text reply after 4 N-close at the same night

    The fact that she responded is positive.
    But like Red Baron said, Wait for a day or 2...
    then text her with a light-hearted, fun, kind of silly text just to re-initiate contact.

    Instead of sounding needy or boring by asking her what she's doing or getting into fluff talk, shoot her a text that really doesn't require a response, but will make her smile or even laugh when she reads it.

    Anything to be different from what other guys would usually send her, is going to have good results.

    If you haven't checked out my post / guide on texting yet, you can take a look here.

    I give several examples of the sort of text message I'm talking about.
    But.. here's one to show you want I mean:

    "OK, so there was either a Grizzly Bear in my mirror this morning, or I just really look like HELL when I wake up!"

    As far as whether or not you built enough attraction, I can't really tell just based on your post.
    BUT... you CAN build LOTS of attraction through texting.
    I do it all the time. (Actually that's kinda my "secret weapon" LOL!)

    Just keep texting at a light, playful level & not as a means of having full conversations.
    That means, use it as a way to stay in contact & get a couple fun interactions going...
    That will help build attraction & gain interest from her.


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    Default Re: First text reply after 4 N-close at the same night

    You guys absolutely right I did text her today since already been 2 days the text was like this
    me: " hey I was at a friend's place and he has a big picture of a bikini girl in his room and she is wearing the same glasses as you lol " because she was wearing glasses when I met her and I commented that she looks like a sexy scientist (I actually think that is a good neg if a girl wears a glasses I tried many time It works and they laugh about it)
    Her: "lol Nice"
    Me: "so how is your day?"
    she didn't replied. is it because her replied was too short that means she is not interested from the first place? or did I blow it by asking her how is her day?


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