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    Jaz
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    Default How to make this girl I laid my fb?

    Firstly, I am no longer a virgin! I'm 29 and it had been driving me crazy all the chances I've had in the past few years to change things but not taken them mostly due to lack of experience but also the odd piece of bad luck. Finally, the other week (before I went on holiday), I met this girl on a night out through a work friend of mine. She was no more than a HB6 but, as beggars can't be choosers and I had been going through a really bad time, I thought fuck it and went for it later on in the night. We made out on the dance floor a few times and then went back to mine to do the business (for the first time in my life!!!!). She left early the next morning and I didn't get her number as I didn't want her to be my gf and didn't have the foresight to realise she could be a fb.

    I will ask my friend at work for her number and presuming I get it, I'm not entirely sure what to do to then make her my fb. Shouldn't be too difficult (I hope) but I was thinking perhaps texting her something as simple as "hey, was great meeting you that night, and I really enjoyed it. We should do that again sometime..."

    How do you think I should make this girl my fb? Would you be more explicit about it or just try and meet her first?

    If I could make this girl my fb it would be brilliant as not only would it make me more relaxed now that I'm getting some (lol!), but would also be great practice to have the confidence to hopefully start laying many more girls - and even potentially the biggest regret in my life so far, the oneitis I was too much of a pussy (probably due to be a virgin at the time) to lay earlier this year when I had the chances, but now I've moved away to a completely different city for a new job etc (you can find plenty posts about my oneitis in my history).

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    Default Re: How to make this girl I laid my fb?

    First,

    Congrats!!!

    Second, your text idea is horrible, lol

    At best, maybe "hey Thursday was fun"

    But in all reality, scrap it and send her something else entirely

    If you want a f buddy, some inconsistency is key. Don't text her every day or show too much investment in trying to get her out all the time, but definitely do move towards another encounter

    Your best approach, when things get hot and heavy, tell her, hey I like you but I want to be up front I am kinda in date mode and I'm not sure what I want yet

    That's all you need to say, she'll know you want to date but don't want to assume its a relationship

    Keep us posted
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    Jaz
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    Default Re: How to make this girl I laid my fb?

    Quote Originally Posted by The Red Baron View Post
    First,

    Congrats!!!

    Second, your text idea is horrible, lol

    At best, maybe "hey Thursday was fun"

    But in all reality, scrap it and send her something else entirely

    If you want a f buddy, some inconsistency is key. Don't text her every day or show too much investment in trying to get her out all the time, but definitely do move towards another encounter

    Your best approach, when things get hot and heavy, tell her, hey I like you but I want to be up front I am kinda in date mode and I'm not sure what I want yet

    That's all you need to say, she'll know you want to date but don't want to assume its a relationship

    Keep us posted
    Thanks, it was a long time coming!

    I will get her number and then try and imply explicitly lol what my intentions are. I suppose it's nothing to lose.


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