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    Default Avoid relationship

    I've been gaming this girl and she's always texting me first and the texts always become sexual pretty fast. I'm pretty confident I can close but I want to know what kind of things I should avoid to keep things purely sexual. I'm not interested in a relationship with her. Should I tell her straight up before anything happens, during, after etc...? I have had purely sexual relationships before but they sort of just happened when I was afc... haha... anyways, any help you guys can give would be fantastic !

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    Default Re: Avoid relationship

    Dont say it straight forwardly just allude to it, try not to get all vulnerable and stuff that is a major turn off for both sides. Other than that just keep pushing towards a close and have fun!
    Take her off that farking pedestal!

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    Default Re: Avoid relationship

    Incorrect, you do want to say it straightforward, it's pretty simple if you phrase it right

    First, be very sexually forward with her, joke, tease, bring passion

    Second, BEFORE you get in to bed with her, say "hey, I think you're really cool and I want to keep hanging out, I just want to be up front that I'm kinda in date mode right now and I am dating other people"
    Customize that if you like, but you must say "date mode"

    If you are up front girls are surprisingly cool. Out of maybe 20 girls I've put into MLTR status I've only ever had 1 say no

    And that's ok, it wasn't for her, and it's more important to be up front and honest

    We are PUAs, not players.

    Try the approach and you will be impressed how cool they are with it

    Good luck and keep us posted

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    Say it confidently too I forgot that is the basis of Mode One by Alan Roger Currie.

    I've been reading way too much material and its getting conflicted without field testing. I do have player tendencies that I need to drop, but thats why I'm here!

    I agree with Red Baron though!
    Take her off that farking pedestal!

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    Default Re: Avoid relationship

    Totally with red baron, I f closed a girl 2 weeks ago who is friends with my mate and she now keeps trying to get with me, obv I'm not interested so I don't allow anything to happen. Normally people would think I was being harsh sleeping with her and then doing this however because I said up front that it was only ever going to be a ONS everyone is cool with me and she can't have a go at me either. Definitely better to always be honest

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