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    Default Getting over the feeling of 'regret'

    I've been working on switching to the pua mindset at parties, but there's certain instances when I feel like I go past my personal comfort level. Don't know if I should take this as a good thing, or bad. One such example is at a party, when I drank a little more than I should have, and ended up with this girl grabbing her ass, making out with her, in front of everyone...in front of her boyfriend, who both happen to be close friends of mine. People have brought it up, but just smile and say "you're crazy, man". I feel ashamed, but at the same time...other girls who were there have been acting a little more openly sexual and blunt than ever before, which I suppose is the goal of pua. What can I do to help myself get over this feeling and just let myself have a good time with all these new interactions though? Was it easy for you more experienced guys to just "not give a f" one day? Did it take you just realizing your potential one day, or was it a gradual thing that slowly changed you as you closed more girls?

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    Default Re: Getting over the feeling of 'regret'

    I feel ashamed, but at the same time...other girls who were there have been acting a little more openly sexual and blunt than ever before, which I suppose is the goal of pua. What can I do to help myself get over this feeling and just let myself have a good time with all these new interactions though? Was it easy for you more experienced guys to just "not give a f" one day? Did it take you just realizing your potential one day, or was it a gradual thing that slowly changed you as you closed more girls?

    That's the goal of PU? I have always seen the goal of PU to be the ability, not the action, to get the girl you want. It's not "not giving an f," but more specifically not caring about the things that don't matter and instead focusing on the ones that do.

    Closing girls isn't a measure of your success. Enjoying the women around you is. Success in purity has a direct relationship with happiness.

    Besides a few general rules, PU is what you determine it to be. Don't let others decide that for you. Find it out yourself.
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    Default Re: Getting over the feeling of 'regret'

    Awesome response by Cody. I completely agree. PUA is a tool and everyone uses it for different things. They even cater it to their own personality do everyone's game can be different with the same basic principles.

    Like he said its the ability to KNOW you can get her, but you don't have to.

    What sounds like to me is that you're doing more "player" stuff than PUA stuff. PUA allows to have a genuine connection with a woman which can create long lasting attraction even if you don't pursue a LTR with her.

    On a final note...its college!! You're suppose to do these things and enjoy yourself lol. Being a player isn't the worst thing. That would be the 'nice guy' who gets friendzoned and never laid.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."


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