Re: Why did I FAIL in online dating?
I'll be honest. Online dating is BRUTAL. Especially dating sites. If you aren't up to par on the looks dept then your humor has to be insanely good. This is the process...
First she'll read your message (sometimes they go straight to your profile and not even read it)
Then she looks at your pics (as long as your main pic caught some interest)
Third she will read your bio section.
You see how many steps before she gets to see your sense of humor? Some will just straight up take one look at your photo and move on. This is where you need to implant your humor not just in your first message....but your pictures.
Try not to rate your online success to overall success. It really is a woman's realm and its about "hot or not" mindsets. Dating sites are notorious for this stigma and more social ones like FB aren't much better. Its an uphill battle since they can't see any of your confident body language or tone of voice. It's a numbers game.
It is possible to be good though, don't get me wrong. Just don't compare it to your overall success with women. What are some first messages you write to them? What are your pics like?
"All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."