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Thread: Explain To Me What She Meant (Text Conversation)

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    Lightbulb Explain To Me What She Meant (Text Conversation)

    FtLSo after work I texted HB8, shes kinda quite in person but kinda flirts more when I talk to other girls. Has a nice personality some one good for LTR. Was thinking of asking her to a date next week and here is the text conversation tell me what you guys thought about it. And she said one thing which has me confused.

    Me: Hey Pal.. Lol I am having coffee again looks like that nicotine got to me :P (some guy at work told us that coffee has nicotine lol)

    Her: Lmao there coffee tastes so bs though.. john might not be lying
    Her: And it's bed time lol now you'll be up all night

    Me: Lol john can be silly, me and my friend Sarah are debating who lies more women or men, we need an outside opinion

    Her: Women lie more.. But a lot of the times it's b.c we want to see if ppl care( WTH DOES THIS ME, SHE MIND FUDGED ME WHEN SHE SAID THIS.)

    Me: Your the best! I told her guys have silly little lies, if a girl asks if she looks good in a dress he'll say yes cuz he doesn't want trouble :P

    (I am trying to know her a bit better cuz earlier I was asking friends and other people at work what kinda guys/girls they like and she said someone who doesn't think about sex all the time) oops I got off tracked

    Her: But guys can be assholes lol depends on the person (was gunna asked what she thought off me, but I thought that came off needy so I didn't.)

    Me: Lol what did u mean that women lie to see if ppl care?

    Her: Umm like sometimes a girl will pretend not to care just to see if a guy cares.. We're all fucked lol ( zomg I am lost WHAT DOES SHE MEAN!)

    Me: Lol that's kinda when your attracted to a girl and you find later she liked you, but then its too late -_-

    Her: Yea but it can be in any case.. Like friendship, dating etc

    Me: Lol this conversation is getting too deep :P plus I need time for my beauty sleep, I'll talk to you later

    Her: Oh me too! Need the beauty sleep so I can get rid of my cold lol! Good night

    So over all how did I do, how can I improve, this all happened last night should I text her again today as I said I wanna ask her to a date so I wanna build comfort and most important WTF DID SHE MEAN BY ALL THAT!?

    Btw guys I am new to the game so I might not perfect plz feel free to say everything.

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    Default Re: Explain To Me What She Meant (Text Conversation)

    the texting convo was ok what she meant by that is exactly what she said, girls will lie to guys to test them, they make up excuses and stuff sometimes just to see if you'll chase after them, girls want to see that a guy can read their charactor, just like how girls are scary good at reading guys charactor and making split second judgements about it i hope this made sense, also check out this link
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    Default Re: Explain To Me What She Meant (Text Conversation)

    For a new guy this stuff is really good

    All I would say next is to Try to steer the conversation more where you want to. Tease her, lead it to more flirtatious stuff

    After the asshole comment accuse her of liking it, or call yourself an ahole, say that's too bad that's kinda what I was going for

    In general too, use fewer lol and fewer smileys, should use them sparingly

    The topic is great tho and much better than many guys use. I was reading tmalon's text guide earlier which is gold
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-gi...al-bible.html#

    And don't worry about her responses, they didn't mean anything good or bad, they just are. The fact she's continuing the conversation shows her interest in you, so keep it up
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    Default Re: Explain To Me What She Meant (Text Conversation)

    Lol I paused while writing this, nice to see you posted the same link meteora! It is a great guide
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    Default Re: Explain To Me What She Meant (Text Conversation)

    haha, i love tmalonetn's stuff about texting, not to mention he posted another good one, check it out
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-gi...ing-needy.html

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    Default Re: Explain To Me What She Meant (Text Conversation)

    Thanks guy appreciate it. So I am probably going to wait one day to text her and then follow your advice, tease her & use cocky/funny technique. Also guys should I ask her to a date in person (I will do it but I might choke or stutter badly) or text (I'll probably stare at the text for like 20 mins and then finally send it lol)

    All this only happens when I actually like a girl and want a relationship. Btw calling her Sars girl (since she has a cold) is that too offensive?

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    Default Re: Explain To Me What She Meant (Text Conversation)

    In person is better, but text is ok

    And SARS is ok If she understands

    I would be more like "how's the sars treating you today?
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    Default Re: Explain To Me What She Meant (Text Conversation)

    I've used the nick-name "Typhoid Mary" on a girl who was sick.... And she told me she laughed so hard it sent her into a coughing fit! LOL!

    As long as the girls understands your sense of humor, you can get away with just about anything.

    I DO recommend keeping anything "cocky" to a minimum because a little bit goes a looooong way! (Plus- the humor may not translate correctly via text)

    So just be cautious about that style.



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    Default Re: Explain To Me What She Meant (Text Conversation)

    Thank you T, but should I ask her on a date via text or face 2 face.

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    Default Re: Explain To Me What She Meant (Text Conversation)

    Quote Originally Posted by Mind Tricks View Post
    Thank you T, but should I ask her on a date via text or face 2 face.
    Actually either way is fine.
    Just be sure you build enough attraction first... then start the rapport/comfort.

    A girl is more likely to decline if the guy hasn't given her enough reason to think she'll have fun... and most guys jump into "asking her out" too soon.

    But I've set up MANY "dates" via text.
    I also don't call them dates... I simply say we should get together or go out for XXXX... and then let her know I have a plan. (*Tip - "assume the sale!" Meaning: your attitude should convey confidence that she's going to accept.)

    An example would be something like: "Craving pizza! Roll with me this Fri @ 8:13! you'll love their hand-tossed crust!"

    Or

    "Tomorrow - Hot, 95 & sunny. I'll be poolside with a cold drink. Bring your sunscreen! :-) "

    Presenting it this way will MUCH have better results than asking, "So, do you want to go out this weekend & maybe get some pizza or something?"



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