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Thread: How to deal with chics talking about ex's?

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    Default How to deal with chics talking about ex's?

    What are some things to say if a chick starts talking about her ex boyfriend?

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    Default Re: How to deal with chics talking about ex's?

    just listen to her, don't make a big deal out of it, and change the subject to something else. it realy is that simple

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    Default Re: How to deal with chics talking about ex's?

    Totally tune out / change the subject.

    OR....
    for a few minutes, act like you're WAAAAY too interested in the subject... (That totally gets a girls attention!)
    LOL!


    Just be aware of the warning signs that she might be getting a wee bit creeped out....
    That's when you have to bring in Ashton Kutcher & let her know she was being "Punk'd"


    But in all seriousness, don't show any signs of being fazed at all.... and then change the subject.

    Her: "My ex Bf blaahhh blahh.."

    You: (after a moment) ".. Yep totally... OH!!! OMG wait!! Did I tell you about XXXX??" & make something up that has a humorous twist to it.

    Even if it's totally ridiculous.. like "I am sooooo addicted to mashed potatoes!!! Seriously I'm, not kidding!! I have a real problem... especially if they have gravy on them.... MMMM.... So why did you bring that up anyway? That's just mean!!"

    Basically make zero deal out of it... or make a "playful" big deal out of it by being funny, & letting her know it doesn't matter because it's in the past.

    Either way you want to be Alpha in your reaction.


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    Default Re: How to deal with chics talking about ex's?

    I use this line any time someone talks about something I don't like. It never fails and always gets a laugh.

    "What does this have to do with anything?"
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    Default Re: How to deal with chics talking about ex's?

    I LOVE Cody's example, based on knowing his personality.
    You have to learn YOUR OWN personality & what fits you as an individual.

    We can ALL offer advice... and that's why I keep coming back to these forums!!

    All of us have different (yet similar....... if that makes sense) styles.

    Learn & test different things to see what fits you personally.
    THAT'S when you'll have the greates success.



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