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    Default How do I stop being that nice guy?

    I'm talking to more and more people even if I don't feel like it. I got rejected by this girl I was talking to on the treadmill but I didn't take it hard like I use to do. However I was observant to notice that sure I did smile out of my own volition because smiling is important when it comes to women noticing you. Also smiling for yourself not to mold your mood for others is something I'm stepping out of (for example: I'd see other peope with zero to no expression, that doesn't mean I should be the same way; so when I was out I smiled to my own comfort not caring about what other people should think.

    Now getting back to this guy, I did step one which was to keep this smile but I didn't really convey sexual interest in the girl I was talking to, I was basically talking with her asking her general questions. I didn't create that sexual chemistry in my conversation which was the problem which is to no surprise why she told me she had a boyfriend when I asked her number.

    The most I ever did was like "you're gonna need to work on that butt if you want to get good at soccer" (because she played indoor soccer) she laughed but like it wasn't really congruent with what she was feeling.

    This nice guy is too formal and polite. I'm wondering if this will go away with practice. Trying to be that bad boy with edge is something I'm quite new to.

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    Default Re: How do I kill that nice guy?

    Yeah as you get more used to talking to attractive women you'll become more relaxed, less formal, and more ready to not care about what they think - that's where the badboy occurs
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    Default Re: How do I kill that nice guy?

    Quote Originally Posted by Autismus View Post
    Yeah as you get more used to talking to attractive women you'll become more relaxed, less formal, and more ready to not care about what they think - that's where the badboy occurs
    Ah great so I just need to put myself out more.

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    Default Re: How do I stop being that nice guy?

    If you are a nice guy, donīt try to change it. Why donīt you try to tease her?

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    Default Re: How do I stop being that nice guy?

    Quote Originally Posted by THEelegance View Post
    If you are a nice guy, donīt try to change it. Why donīt you try to tease her?
    I did, perhaps because while she was getting her cardio on she would like speed up the treadmill to like max and run like crazy, it probably wasn't the best of times to be getting her attention.

    Guess she just answered my questions for the sake of passing time.

    I had to push myself to converse with her, I felt intimidated with everyone else running on their machines but like I pulled through.


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