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Thread: Picked up the Artist, Left Her Hanging, Pointers or Advise

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    Default Picked up the Artist, Left Her Hanging, Pointers or Advise

    Alright, well I've texted with this artist chick who bros say is tough to crack. She gave me her number months ago at a party, but I never used until the other day.
    Me: Hey pulchitrudinous
    She: Who is this that gave me this strange compliment?
    Me: It's Mike from that party awhile back, I know you remember me. How's life and junk?
    She: How could I forget you? lol
    She: I'm ok (blah, blah, blah)
    Me: That's cool I guess. Hey, I'll be coming through that area tomorrow, you know you wanna hang out.
    She: Well, I'm staying with my mom, she don't like visitors. :-(
    Me: So, I'm going to (XXXX place), could always drop by and pick you up?! It's your world, I'm just thriving in it.
    She: Okie Dokie(Not kidding), I'll be ready around 6pm
    Me: Cool
    She: XXXX Summer Place, let me know when your about to be here.
    Me: (No response until I'm almost there the next day)

    So, that's how I got her to get in the car. I picked her up, drove around to a few cool places. I was doing the Push/Pull, Negs, & some routines I've come up with. All the sudden I noticed she started getting quiet and nervous(sweaty nervous, ugh). So, I went back to her place and dropped her off. She sat in the car staring and I started to lean over and said, "You're not going to invite me in?". She said, "You can totally come in, if you want". I just said, "Maybe next time, I've got to see another friend in a while, later!" She stared for awhile, I laughed and said, "What? You want me to stick around?" She was dripping sweat, super nervous, but said, "Yes, if you want?" I said, "I didn't ask what I wanted, I asked what you wanted." She said, "Yes", but very softly, like she was afraid to say that out loud. I leaned back over, put my hand on her thigh, and said, "Maybe next time, got to go."

    Yeah, I know I could have totally f-closed, but she was too nervous and nasty sweaty, not a turn on. Anyway, how was my text/talking? Any info on why she just bombed and got nervous? Also, was the hand on the leg too much, pointers on when and when not to use that?

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    Default Re: Picked up the Artist, Left Her Hanging, Pointers or Advise

    Seriously I got nothing to critique I think you did great, from the first text to the goodbye this is solid

    Your hand on the leg was perfect, she clearly wanted you so definitely escalate, depending on the sweat level I probably would have pulled her in and kissed her then said next time

    But it's good, always leave them wanting more, and you did!
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    Default Re: Picked up the Artist, Left Her Hanging, Pointers or Advise

    I appreciate that, I've done alright, but just started reading PUA material and so I guess I'm not doing to bad. I am wondering about how to keep her from getting so nervous next time, assuming I allow a next time. Plus, I wasn't sure if she was nervous because she thought I was going to at least k-close or she assumed I'd try and was worried about my reaction if she turned me down. Kind of figured it was the prior when she actually said Yeah to me coming in though, just saying.


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