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Thread: stuck on 1 girl and a situation that doesn't allow to sarge any others!

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    Ok, so a little background on my situation. I am in Afghanistan with maybe 10 women on the base that I am stuck at. The unit I am with is from Utah and is high on mormons. Back home I find it easy to meet, talk to, and close models, strippers (was briefly married to one), and hired guns every where. Here, there is 1 girl out of the 10 who I just can't get out of my mind. She's a short petite redhead with an amazing upper half. Incredibly gorgeous due to my love for redheads, but in all honesty on a scale she is probably no higher than an 8. She's 27 (2 years older than me) and loves to play video games and make gourmet coffee to sell to other soldiers. Sounds like the perfect girl for a nerd such as myself right?
    Now the problem... I freeze up around her. I feel complete confidence any time she isn't around. Confidence in my job, my game, my personal life back home. It took me 3 months to be able to start getting a cup of coffee every couple days from her. I can say hi to her, ask her how her day is going, but absolutely can not recall any of my skills, training, or routines. I'm stuck staring at her making the worst possible small talk imaginable while i wait for my coffee to brew.
    I'm sure at this point I have already blown my chances, but if there is any way of salvaging this I would be indeed grateful. Bear in mind that the wrong thing can be taken as sexual harassment and the Army is quite strict on that.
    I know I have what it takes to go the extra mile and see what could happen with her, her smiles and the way she looks and talks to me make me think I might not be entirely screwed here, but how to salvage from here is beyond me.

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    Default Re: stuck on 1 girl and a situation that doesn't allow to sarge any others!

    Your concerns are valid. Even if you didn't risk the sexual harassment complaint, it's still a small group of people you have to interact with for more months and would be very uncomfortable if you did something embarassing. (This is how it was back in the tribal times because of small groups) Your best bet is to just test the waters and tease her alittle bit. See how she responds and go from there. You can even use the army as a "forbidden fruit" element that could increase the attraction between you two. One of those "We shouldn't be doing this" kind of thing.

    I wouldn't worry about trying to "script" anything beforehand. The problem with scripts is that you can't account for all variables and if things don't go according to the script then you could get shaken. So simply test the waters.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: stuck on 1 girl and a situation that doesn't allow to sarge any others!

    This advice was perfect. I feel like I CAN test things out. Understanding that my nervousness is actually acceptable in this situation has made the whole thing less of a freak out. Definitely going to try a dab of taboo with her and if she's not biting let the situation rest as I still need to get my daily coffee. Besides there's a 5.5 with a huge rack that has been moving up in looks the last few weeks thanks to a form of beer goggle called deployment goggles, and is definitely showing some IOI's

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    Default Re: stuck on 1 girl and a situation that doesn't allow to sarge any others!

    They actually say the original reason for AA is because if we were in small tribes, you can't just go up to any woman. You risk getting AMOGed or rejected by her so beings that there would be only like 30 people, then EVERYONE would know you were rejected and you would've lost your opportunity to pass on your genes because you would be a LOSER lol.
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