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    chillout24 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Need to salvage blown successful pickup

    Ok so I was at this dinner for Sukkot the Jewish holiday and I meant this jewish girl from France. She was super cool and I got her facebook name and added her in front of her. Right before I had to leave the dinner I said something stupid about not liking chick flicks and hoping that wasn't what she was writing (she was a screenwriter) and she didn't seem to like that although earlier we had good rapport and were talking a lot. When I left she still seemed to like me although my exit was a little awkward.

    Now I have heard many times that you always have to text right when you leave, so as I was leaving I sent the facebook message. "Hey (HB) very cool meeting you just now. Are you always this friendly?" Since that's my default message I learned on a boot camp. The next morning she accepted my friend request but didn't respond to the message. That was tuesday morning (dinner and sent friend request was monday night), and now it's wednesday afternoon and still haven't heard back.

    She didn't respond to the message, so I'm wondering 1. Was that a bad message to send, since it wasn't really a street pickup and we were talking on and off for like 2 hours so "Cool meeting you just now" didn't congrue with the situation?

    2. Possible that she didn't like my facebook account? I try but don't have much social proof on it...like 120 friends and only a few recent pictures of me doing cool stuff, no one ever posts on my wall except for my bday and then only 12 people total posted in 2012.

    3. What should I do? Should I send her another message. The reason I'm asking is I have absolutely zero luck with zombie game (getting a girl to message me back after she has ignored a text/call) and I kind of liked this girl. I have a few diff girls I could call but this girl is special I feel and it's not the end of the world if I don't get her but I would at least like a second opportunity without blowing it.

    Any help on what to do/what message to send would be helpful.

    I have decent game in person but my text/online game is terrible

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    Tanktop is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Need to salvage blown successful pickup

    Pursue the other girls in the meantime. NExt time number close

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    chillout24 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Need to salvage blown successful pickup

    Quote Originally Posted by Tanktop View Post
    Pursue the other girls in the meantime. NExt time number close
    It was a crowded holiday table and telling her to put her number in my phone seemed inappropriate. I was saying "Yea I can help you with your writing I'm a good writer" she said okay but it didn't feel right to ask for number so Via Adam Lyons I just asked her..."what's the best way to stay in touch?" and she said facebook, so I took out my phone and asked for her name.

    I know I should move on, but I'm not feeling like hitting on other girls right now anyway as I'm kind of sick of it


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