Re: Urgent Help
I personally wouldn't have given her the option to "just be friends." You want to always assume attraction so TELL her "Hey we're meeting this weekend. I'll grab the movie and you cook. Yea that's right....a real f#%*kn date. Go figure!! Not sure if I should bring flowers or bug spray?"
She is probably being truthful about stuff going on with her, but you still want to be confident and do alot of the leading.
"All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."