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    Default not sure what to do, getting frustrated!

    hi guys,
    im in my last year of high school and theres this girl i really like. we get along really well, but way to much in the friend zone., we're sharing a locker in school!!! i was planning to k close her last weekend but she didnt get into the club we were going to.. this happened the weekend before aswell. i feel like giving up even though i havnt givin it that much effort other than talking to her a lot which has just made us good friends, very afc but can anybody help?
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    Default Re: not sure what to do, getting frustrated!

    You want to focus on flirting more. Build more attraction. Part of that is becoming a puzzle she wants to solve. So you may want to calm down on any pillow talk for a bit in order to confuse her. Don't let her know what's inside your head. I would even talk about other women in front of her just to bring out any jealousy she might feel from that. (Don't overdo it though.)

    I believe that pure unhindered attraction is UNCOMFORTABLE. So because you are friends, she may not like this and try to call you on it. But as long as you keep her within reach and not push her TOO far away from you then you should be fine and should not shake from this.

    After a few weeks of increased flirting then you want to start qualifying her. Start telling her why you two wouldn't work out together. Then when she does something you like tell her you "made a mistake and want to get married again." Just roleplay and have fun with it. When she does something you don't like tell her you are getting a divorce, but you get to keep the condo.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: not sure what to do, getting frustrated!

    thanks, but it seems weird just changing like that around her. i think of it in my head like 'yeah thats good' but when it comes down to it i just dont do it!? its not like i dont get girls ive been with a lot, but just this one i dunno!!

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    Default Re: not sure what to do, getting frustrated!

    I like being weird. Because whether people like you or not, they are still talking about you.

    Like I said your friend may notice and call you on it "Why are you being weird" or "I don't like the way your being"

    You cannot shake because of this. If she sets the frame up that you are WEIRD and fall into it (Ex: I'm not trying to be weird. Why am I weird?) then you are now in her frame. You have to set a new frame. Such as she is just trying to control you or shape you into someone you are not. Or maybe set it up that SHE is being weird (which is a bold frame, but could still work). There are a few frames you could use.

    I'm very confident that if you increase your flirting and cut down on the "friend" behavior (like opening up to her) then you increase your chances. Now it's up to you to decide if you are ready to shake things up. You got yourself in the friendzone in the first place for fear of shaking things up so now you should.
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