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    railchaser is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Exclamation need help with my ex best friends ex

    i know the title probably sounds messed up but me and my ex best friend ex have been hanging out lately and we gotten pretty close with the flirting and all( although i have not kissed her). she has a boyfriend and she knows i like her(wanted to keep me liking her a mystery but i gave too much clues during a flirting session)... i have read pua books like the game but i am still new to this pua thing and im hopeing to hone my skills as much as possible.

    by the way im in the first year of collage and she is the same age

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    Default Re: need help with my ex best friends ex

    Dude...really? So not only did this girl used to date your best friend (or ex-best friend), but she's also seeing someone? That just screams bad idea to me.

    Here's my take on learning pickup to get one girl in particular. Most likely you aren't going to get her. I mean, the amount of information you'd need to learn is quite a lot, and you usually don't have much time. On top of that, you have all this extra pressure to do everything right cause you've worked so hard to get her, and it makes you nervous. Add all that together and it's a recipe for failure. So the bad news is, you probably aren't going to get the girl you aim for.

    The good news is that if you take this seriously, you've got a great chance of getting the next girl that strikes your fancy. And the next one. And the next one. That's the beauty of Pick Up. You get an abundance of girls to choose from.

    So considering all the drama that's going to come from this girl and all the other girls that you'll start seeing in a few weeks, I've got to ask...really?
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”

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    railchaser is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: need help with my ex best friends ex

    tell me about the drama part. its kinda stressing me out and you might think this girl is just a normal girl but shes the only girl that can read me completely, i know im being an AFC right now but i cant help it i like the challenge. although other girls have been looking at me away since lately, i guess its pre selection... if you know any methods to get a girl in my situation let me know

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    Default Re: need help with my ex best friends ex

    if she can read you really well, then anything that we tell you she will see right through, but ive been there myself so this is what i have to say on the matter. bandit is right, your chances of getting this girl are slim, but you might as well give it a shot right? now i wouldnt drag it on if i were you, dont jokingly tell her to break up with her bf, thats gonna get you nowhere other than the hospital, trust me aha. i would probably just give her the option and let it be, maybe put it out there gently, cuz you dont wanna scare her away with the typical high school line "will you go out with me" or by putting it so bluntly as to say "I really like you" even though she knows it, it might scare her to hear it. you cant ask her on a date without the risk of her thinking its just as friends, or her bf knocking some teeth out, so if i were you, even though this makes me sound like im in middle school aha, i would maybe jokingly talk about dating each other and work your way out of the friend zone and into the stealing your girlfriend zone haha, and be prepared for the consequences of that. hope that helps

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    Default Re: need help with my ex best friends ex

    Tyrone1991 is the man to talk to for BF destroyers. He's written posts about it. That's going to be your hardest part.
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