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    I can open, I have good style and a a great body, so women are intially attracted but then for soem reason I constantly try to fight back these nervous ticks like the corner of my mouth spasming in anxiety when I listen to her speak, and I am trying to fight back all these other little ticks and I can see her lose attracted because I cant control my dam facial expressions? Anyone have any suggustions ?

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    Default Re: how to control nervous ticks

    have a beer

    smoke a jay

    take a valium

    see a docter
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    Default Re: how to control nervous ticks

    Just keep imaging her naked ,, and then you will have different expression and you will be more relaxed .
    Cheers

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    Default Re: how to control nervous ticks

    Quote Originally Posted by Tyrone1991 View Post
    have a beer

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    take a valium

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mody View Post
    Just keep imaging her naked ,, and then you will have different expression and you will be more relaxed .
    Cheers
    Lol ^ nice ones guys! xD

    I'll add 'just relax.' Like, the epitome of literally relax. If your mouth twitches, relax your face completely; if your fingers fidget, relax your hands completely; relax the muscles deeply as you would when falling asleep. This will help your brain discriminate between when you want a muscle to relax or when you want it to be active.
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    Default Re: how to control nervous ticks

    I'm going to go with see a doctor for 1000
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    Default Re: how to control nervous ticks

    Find something to do. Smile, laugh, chew gum, fold a paperclip in your hand, hold a drink and feel the edges with your fingers.

    If she calls you out, have a good explaination. You're smiling/laughing at what she said, or what she had said that reminded you of a funny story (tell story). With the paperclip, make up some story about letting your sub-conscious preditct the outcome of something to do with her/you and her.
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    Default Re: how to control nervous ticks

    I had the same problem when I was younger, so I know how crappy it is to your comfort & confidence.

    What eventually worked for me was being conscious about relaxing & slowing down & being aware of it. It was tough at first, but before long I noticed a TON of improvement.

    You just have to be willing to fight back against it & learn to control your body movements.

    The biggest thing is to feel relaxed & calm.
    For me, when I was wound up & / or nervous, that's when it was the worst.

    But, I can assure you... you're not the only one that has to (or had to) deal with this.


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    Default Re: how to control nervous ticks

    You may want to try breathing. Fill those lungs up with slow deep breaths to relax yourself.

    Also control your focus. If you focus on your twitches you are more likely to increase them since you are becoming self conscious about them. Ever had an itch that once you scratched it, it got increasingly itchy? Very similar. Get your mind off it. Maybe even pinch yourself on the arm to get your mind to focus on that.
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