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    Default Help with the game on a really shy girl.

    Hello guys,

    I've been looking around PuaForums for some time, got some real good advice and decided to try some of what I've seen on some girls I know.

    Sorry for the long story, but I think the more details I could give, the better you could help me later

    It worked quite well on most girls, but there's one specific HB9 who attends a drawing course with me, the first time I saw her I wasn't even interested (she seemed to have too high standards for me to try to pick her up). The teacher propose that we chose somewhere on the building to draw, I got out of the class and when I finished my drawing I got back, then she stopped the drawing she was doing and started to draw me, staring quite directly, when I stared back and stayed that way for some time (like 5 seconds)she smiled and blushed (IOIs).
    After some time, each class the teacher tells us to place our drawings on the ground and we discuss them all. During the discussion we flirted some more and she smiled again, I got quite interested and got afraid to screw up, so I decided to wait for the next class (one week later) to talk to her.
    I found her on facebook but still didn't add her, looked into it for some time to devise a strategy, like planning what kind of game I should use on her, I found she was like some alpha female, so I set my game to look like an alpha male, acting confident, open, friendly, funny and touchy.
    On the next class she wasn't present, so I started to talk to a girl I noticed to be her only friend in the class (expecting it would help me to get near the HB9), also make some friends as it would help demonstrate social status.
    She didn't attend to the course for like 4 weeks then I thought she just abandoned it, but today she went there so I put the plan in practic, as her friend didn't attend this week I thought that if I build enough frendliness with the other people I could talk to her on the end of the class without being suspicious.
    I did a really good drawing, which the teacher praised, it made me confident to talk about the other people's drawings (I tried to ever say good things about the drawings I commented, as it would show I feel ok admiting other people draw well), I felt like the other people did respect me and it would help me DHV to the HB9, then, when the teacher commented her drawing she said she should throw it on the trash can.
    It made me very confused, on the first class she seemed very confident but today she looked really shy, with a body language that was painful to look at, speaking at a very low voice, looking down, she set her drawing really far from the other people's drawings you know, like a really shy girl would, I got so shocked I could not say anything about her drawing, but I didn't demonstrate it. I tried to be playful, made some jokes, she giggled shyly, then I kept on being friendly with the people, the teacher praised me even for the comments I made on the other people's drawings, but every time I DHV she cowered. When the teacher finished the class she got out really fast, alone, like she was really angry, I couldn't even talk to her as I wanted.
    I wonder if the way I acted wouldn't work on a shy girl, maybe acting that way she might have felt socially far from me as I looked popular and she looked shy. I think that by playing the usual game (DHV, demonstrating social status) with a shy girl, for which it may not be well suited I might have screwed it up, so the great question is:
    WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE USUAL GAME AND THE GAME I SHOULD PLAY WITH A SHY GIRL?
    And I would appreciate any suggestions you guys could give, thanks

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    Default Re: Help with the game on a really shy girl.

    If I'm understanding this right, you said a month went by and she missed class but before hand she was very alpha and not shy like she was when she returned? I'm also guessing you haven't added her on Facebook. So my guess here is that something drastic has happened in her life that is causing her to act this way. I don't see a HB9 going from alpha to shy girl in corner without something serious effecting her actions. I would find out if anything has happened before knowing how to assess your game. Maybe wait her out to be back to normal. As for the difference between shy and outgoing girls when you are running your game... None, but be more tactful getting her to open up to you. A shy girl may be a little more reluctant to invest in you, but shy girls may also be more excited by your attention. I see it as 6's. To me however, she doesn't seem shy, she seems depressed.

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    Default Re: Help with the game on a really shy girl.

    yeah thats pretty touchy, definately be careful and make sure nothing bad has happened, probably be more serious than you typically would be when you talk to her
    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever

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    Default Re: Help with the game on a really shy girl.

    That was an awesome comment Sinkalos thats some solid advice, I agree with it!

    Dark Prince that friend of hers could prove beneficial to you get to know her and if she likes you(the friend), getting to know this girl will be easier for you tread lightly though!
    Take her off that farking pedestal!

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    Default Re: Help with the game on a really shy girl.

    Thanks for the advice guys,

    You're right sinkalos, I haven't added her on facebook, gonna add some friends of her that share friends with me first, don't wanna freak her out.

    I'm not sure if she's had some problem or if I got the wrong idea from seeing her only once and looking at her facebook, anyway, I'm gonna be more careful with her, try not to be the center of attention as it would make her feel distant from me.
    Next class I'm gonna make some positive critique about her drawing, even if it means going against the teacher's opinion, then later I could ask her to exchange her drawing with mine (as it is a common practic on the class, I even exchanged drawings with that friend of hers last week)

    Then I'll post here reporting what happened, hope I can get some more of your advice later, thanks.


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