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    chr1s7ian is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Should I continue to pursue this girl over text?

    K pretty close to dropping this girl but that AFC in me is saying not to give up cause she's hot. This is the second time I've tried asking her out. She doesn't seem to just ignore me like most chicks that have a low interest level. Why? Anyway I got frustrated and this was the convo:

    Me: A friend of mine's dad is a really talented photographer and he has a show next week. What's your schedule like?

    Her: I meant what I said about not looking for anything

    (here I get annoyed. Should have just let it go and not responded)

    Me: Lol so you just wanna fark then? Let me know lil b. I'll be around

    Her: I didn't say that either

    Me: For curiosity's sake, I'll bite. What do you want? Why would you respond to something rude like that instead of just ignoring me?

    Her: Please you and every other guy in the world wants to fark me. Pretty girl problems. You seems nice but I'm not looking for anything specific

    Me: Lol [her name] relax. You are not the only girl in the world and I'm not seeking validation. It's been real. I will remember this texting joust. It was fun

    Her: I never said you weren't allowed to text me. I just said that you shouldn't expect anything from me. I'd love to go to this art thing (schedule permitting of course) I just don't want you to go expecting something

    So this is a pickle. Do I drop this girl cause she's a headache or is her last msg enough conciliation that I should respond? I'm dying to try some of the seduction techniques I've learned here on this girl but at this point I have no idea how I could make a date with he without looking like an AFC.

    Ps. I will never text a girl this long ever again. Shoulda just manned up and called her the first time I asked her out.
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    Default Re: Should I continue to pursue this?

    first of all, i love how you gamed her via text, you def know what your doing, and i see where your coming from cuz iim the same way. if it were me i would take her, have a good time, and get in the friend zone. having female friends isnt a bad thing. i use a lot of the female friends that i have to help me pick other girls. its great when you go to the mall with them and they drag you into all the girly stores that you cant go into typically, but you can with them cuz your kinda obligated to. actually now that i think about it, this is what i would do.
    take her out, somewhere that you would usually go to practice game, like a mall or something, and when your there, game on other girls and get a few number closes, that way you can show her you are fine with being in the friend zone and it will probably make her jealous and go for you which is always better. you will end up with either her or being being able to use her to pick up other girls
    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever

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    Default Re: Should I continue to pursue this?

    Quote Originally Posted by daltonbrayall View Post
    take her out, somewhere that you would usually go to practice game, like a mall or something, and when your there, game on other girls and get a few number closes, that way you can show her you are fine with being in the friend zone and it will probably make her jealous and go for you which is always better. you will end up with either her or being being able to use her to pick up other girls
    Couldn't have said it better myself!

    She'll be expecting you to try to hit on her, so if you try to seduce her she'll 1) shoot you down
    2) have all the power
    3) tell stories about you to all her friends (which means you won't have a shot with them either)
    Soooo... Don't seduce her. Make her want you to seduce her. Make her seduce you. Or just use her for her friends.

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    chr1s7ian is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Should I continue to pursue this?

    I cant even begin to explain how much of a rookie I am so I appreciate the compliments on my text game. Having said that, taking her to a place I would run game feels risky. I'm still pretty rusty at this and having a stranger there might make me nervous.

    I like the idea though. A lot. What do I give a fark about what this girl thinks anyway...

    So how do I transition to something like that?

    "Listen, I get it. But like I said, I'm not really looking for friends... Idk.. You seem like a cool chick though so why dont you come do some fall shopping with me?"

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    daltonbrayall is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Should I continue to pursue this?

    yeah that sounds good, i think its very likely she will go since thats kinda the same way you texted her and she seemed to go for it. might not be a good idea to do that though if you dont know what your doing aha. maybe try going to the mall and practicing by yourself first, mainly just make sure you can open, you dont necessarily have to get the close every time, though it would be better, but talking to a lot of other girls alone might help
    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever

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    Default Re: Should I continue to pursue this girl over text?

    The man in you is telling you not to give up, the "AFC" is telling
    you that it is too hard. A man should never be dissuaded from his
    goal because of a couple minor hurdles.

    I think you get frustrated too easily though taking the straight
    route with her was good. If you consider this woman to have given
    you a hard time then you do not truly understand how easy to
    deal with she is being. I think you need to date around more
    before you consider her to be anywhere close to the "headache"
    that you are wanting to drop.

    Her telling you not expect anything is her way of saying that
    she is not easy. Is that so bad, I think not. The good ones you
    might have to work for a bit more and so far she has not put
    you through much hassle.

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    daltonbrayall is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Should I continue to pursue this girl over text?

    exactly, bro you dont , want it to be easy cuz if its easy for you, odds are it was easy for every other guy
    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever

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    chr1s7ian is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Should I continue to pursue this girl over text?

    Hey thanks for the advice guys.

    Lol so I guess I farked this up. I thought this text was cocky/funny but I guess it went too far cause she flipped out.

    Me: Lol you know I'm not an animal right? As long as you get that I'm not tryin to make friends im down to hang out.

    Her: K that was the rudest thing anyone has ever said to me. Nice knowing you
    Next time try being less of a douche, you might actually get laid

    Hahaha not what I was expecting to say the least. I get why she was offended.. I think. What I was trying to say was that I'm not animal in that I'm not just looking for sex but that I don't want to take you out if you just see me as a friend.

    Did she overreact or did I actually go too far?

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    daltonbrayall is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Should I continue to pursue this girl over text?

    hahaha dude im sorry but you deffff took that too far, whatever you do though dont appologize to her and dont even explain yourself to her, maybe say " i wasnt trying to get laid, which is what i just said, but alright peace out" or something like that
    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever

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    daltonbrayall is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Should I continue to pursue this girl over text?

    and i still dont get why you werent fine with being friends with her
    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever


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