Top 10 Stats
Latest Posts Loading... Loading...
Loading...
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Results 1 to 10 of 10
Like Tree2Likes
  • 1 Post By nik
  • 1 Post By Pronto_lander

Thread: I asked her out and she invited me to a party instead.

  1. #1
    afcforthewin is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 108, Level: 2
    Level completed: 16%, Points required for next Level: 42
    Overall activity: 5.3%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered100 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Mar 2012
    Posts
    12
    Points
    108
    Level
    2
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    9

    Default I asked her out and she invited me to a party instead.

    So I told a girl I've been texting that I wanted to take her on date (we've gotten dinner once before, but since then she's been "too busy" to get together). She responded "Hahaha it's okay we can hang out. My friend's having a birthday tomorrow if you want to come." How should I respond? My gut is telling not to go to the bday and instead insist on a real date...

  2. #2
    Autismus's Avatar
    Autismus is offline PUA All Star
    Points: 10,566, Level: 68
    Level completed: 29%, Points required for next Level: 284
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    Social10000 Experience Points31 days registered
    Join Date
    Jul 2012
    Location
    New Orleans, LA
    Posts
    903
    Points
    10,566
    Level
    68
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    473

    Default Re: I asked her out and she invited me to a party instead.

    Don't insist on a date - that would seem needy. She denied the date for the party because (a) is interested in you, but you don't have enough attraction yet; or (b) you are nearing the friendzone.

    Either way the solution is the same: go to the party ( kinda late, like 10:30 / 11:30) and get her to chase you / kino / build more attraction / sexual tension. If you build enough attraction then that will either (a) get you a date; or (b) keep you out of thw FZ
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR

  3. #3
    linking is offline Banned
    Points: 8,553, Level: 64
    Level completed: 35%, Points required for next Level: 197
    Overall activity: 8.8%
    Achievements:
    Social7 days registered5000 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Aug 2012
    Location
    Uk
    Posts
    876
    Points
    8,553
    Level
    64
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    0

    Default Re: I asked her out and she invited me to a party instead.

    Party sounds like a plan mate, just as easy to hit on her there as it would be on a date, obv it depends what your looking for but if you just want a ONS then I'd take the party over the date anyway, get some alcohol and a party atmosphere into the pair of you and things are going to happen

    Linking x

  4. #4
    CupidSchool Guest

    Default Re: I asked her out and she invited me to a party instead.

    Ok let me break it down for you. She wants to go out with you and she is really interested. A girl that is not interested in you would not invite u to meet her friends. Go out enjoy have fun.

  5. #5
    nik's Avatar
    nik
    nik is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 1,523, Level: 22
    Level completed: 23%, Points required for next Level: 77
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    Social1000 Experience Points31 days registered
    Join Date
    Oct 2010
    Location
    Kansas
    Posts
    278
    Points
    1,523
    Level
    22
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    80

    Default Re: I asked her out and she invited me to a party instead.

    Be the life of the damn party. If all of her friends accept you, she won't have much of a choice.
    I have failed more than most men have tried.

    Every woman you pass up is a woman you will never have.

  6. #6
    Shakeshi is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 1,565, Level: 23
    Level completed: 65%, Points required for next Level: 35
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered1000 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Sep 2012
    Location
    Southern California
    Posts
    82
    Points
    1,565
    Level
    23
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    72

    Default Re: I asked her out and she invited me to a party instead.

    She clearly likes you and thinks you are cool or she would not want
    you to meet her friends. Have fun with her and her friends. Do not
    try to be some crazy center of attention, just relax and be social.
    They will want to see that you are someone who can fit in with their
    group and not be either boring nor an overly aggressive guy who tries
    to take over everything.

    Once her friends see that you are cool they will in turn start pushing
    her in your direction.

  7. #7
    afcforthewin is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 108, Level: 2
    Level completed: 16%, Points required for next Level: 42
    Overall activity: 5.3%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered100 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Mar 2012
    Posts
    12
    Points
    108
    Level
    2
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    9

    Default Re: I asked her out and she invited me to a party instead.

    Wow I totally got the opposite impression. The fact that she was too busy for a few weeks and then converted my invitation for a date (and I specifically said date) to a group hang out seems like a friendzone kind of thing?

  8. #8
    linking is offline Banned
    Points: 8,553, Level: 64
    Level completed: 35%, Points required for next Level: 197
    Overall activity: 8.8%
    Achievements:
    Social7 days registered5000 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Aug 2012
    Location
    Uk
    Posts
    876
    Points
    8,553
    Level
    64
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    0

    Default Re: I asked her out and she invited me to a party instead.

    Even if she is trying to friend zone you....which I personally don't think she is......if you go to the party and run solid game on her, lots of kino and physical escalation then she won't be able to FZ you, just don't allow it to happen.......turn up the heat and rack up the attraction

    Linking x

  9. #9
    Shakeshi is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 1,565, Level: 23
    Level completed: 65%, Points required for next Level: 35
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered1000 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Sep 2012
    Location
    Southern California
    Posts
    82
    Points
    1,565
    Level
    23
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    72

    Default Re: I asked her out and she invited me to a party instead.

    A few weeks is nothing, I have had women ( who eventually ended up
    obsessed with me ) take way longer.

  10. #10
    Pronto_lander is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 141, Level: 2
    Level completed: 82%, Points required for next Level: 9
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    100 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Oct 2012
    Posts
    34
    Points
    141
    Level
    2
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    0

    Default Re: I asked her out and she invited me to a party instead.

    Who knows maybe your gonna meet another desirable girl there.


Similar Threads

  1. Replies: 1
    Last Thread: 09-10-2012, 10:10 AM
  2. Replies: 2
    Last Thread: 07-27-2012, 11:41 AM
  3. how can i get invited out more
    By AFCforeveralone in forum General Questions
    Replies: 0
    Last Thread: 04-13-2012, 04:12 AM
  4. I asked her out, but then she invited a plus 1
    By penguin in forum Online And Text Game
    Replies: 4
    Last Thread: 03-13-2012, 11:45 AM
  5. She Invited me on a Trip - No Hookup
    By ccl6262 in forum Isolating And Pulling
    Replies: 3
    Last Thread: 08-31-2011, 12:47 PM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
DMCA.com