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    Default Odd question, Going to the movies

    So yesterday I approached a set of girls, one of them had to go, so I hang out with the other one, I showed HDV, I did negs, and even did playful kino and had the conversation really fun, I got number close and we text that same day at night,
    This morning she texted me and we end up in going to the movies today, she is bringing her other friend I met yesterday. (we going to a scary movie btw!)
    But she texted the following, "Hey, the movie starts around(blah, blah time) lets meet there and maybe bring a couple of friends and we can all hang out"

    I'm not sure what to think About
    "maybe bring a couple of friends and we can all hang out"
    Maybe she does not want her friend to be alone? or maybe she does not want her friend to win me
    or maybe she wants to meet some of my friends and hook up with them instead of me?

    I know she is attracted to me, I've seen lots of IOI, she laugh at my jokes, she tries to build rapport, she talks a lot and wants to be around me.
    BUT That text up there makes me confused :S

    What I'm Planning is not bringing any friends at all, I'm the alpha male, I don't mind coming out as a bit rude if she tell me why I did not bring friends.

    Also I don't want to bored her friend, by just flirting with one, should I play hard to get and divide the attention between?

    Should I kiss her when we'r at the movies? Or put my arm
    around her? how should I know she want me to do that?

    thanks to everyone

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    Default Re: Odd question, Going to the movies

    I'd suggest brining only chick friends or (as you've planned) no one, then invite her for food or coffee before the movie.

    In my experience kino durimg a movie gets awkward if it exceeds the already established kino. If you've held.her hand before tje movies then go for it in the movoe, if you haven't then don't. That is playing it safe of course, and there are other "high risk/high reward" gambits for a reason
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR

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    Default Re: Odd question, Going to the movies

    "I'm the alpha male, I don't mind coming out as a bit rude if she tell me why
    I did not bring friends."

    Just to comment on something you said. People can become obsessed with
    being "alpha" in which they think they have to be rude and confrontational.
    A lot people you meet trying to do pick up are recovering "nice guys" who
    overcompensate by going too far the other way. Some guys were such
    doormats in the past that they might equate even the simplest denial of
    anyone's request as being rude and still feel guilt when they do.

    You do not need to be rude to deny others in most cases.

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    Default Re: Odd question, Going to the movies

    Hey Philboss

    That same thing happened to me I asked a girl to the movies and she accepted, and on the day of the movie she told me she wanted to invite some friends along so I said cool. Later that day she calls me and says lets meet at the movies earlier than planned and I said I can't also we were supposed to have a light dinner afterwards but that also changed since her and her friends while waiting for me had eaten. During the movie she sat next to her lady friend who was in between us and her other male friend next to me. Afterwards we went to a street festival, and met up with some more friends in which she talked to more than me, so after being ignored I left without notice. The next day she texts me and ask if I wanted to go with her shopping but I had already made plans for that day, and at that point I put her in the friend zone. She has invited me out (one on one) since then for lunch and dinner trying to get out of the friend zone but I agree with Autismus take a female friend with you and if nothing else have fun with her. But if I had of taken a female friend that first date to the movies with us I would have closed by now.


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