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Thread: Mixed signals, texting vs 1on1 game, what am i doing wrong?

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    Default Re: Mixed signals, texting vs 1on1 game, what am i doing wrong?

    How I usually do it is just have a few things in mind about what you expect from a woman. And just try to find out if she has those traits. Or better....get her to prove to you she really does have those traits even if they aren't her dominant traits. Follow this with an SOI (Statement of Interest) to show her she is slowly winning you over.

    You can either elicit these things directly "What's the most romantic thing you've ever done?" Or just through casual conversation try to grab something she says that you feel she would like to be qualified on. "Wait...you've been to Europe? That's incredible." Follow this with an IOD so she doesn't feel like she's won you over and will ease any tension that may have been created if you hit on her too early. "Oh now your just trying to show off. No one likes a bragger." This also encompasses push/pull techniques which are my favorite and recommend to everyone.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Mixed signals, texting vs 1on1 game, what am i doing wrong?

    Qualifiying is whatever YOU want in a girl so only you can say for sure what 'qualifications' u want.

    And btw ... red baron put up a whole guide about qualification. Do some searching.

    And dont be so quick to change your mind over a post.

    No offense to anyone who posted but there was no solid reason to believe the girl doesnt like you (at least none from the info u gave). ALL women act flakey and withdraw IOI and test in one way or another... from the limited info i get from the convo, i think in the very least she cant figure you out ... which isnt a hopeless situation to be stuck in. She probably thinks (because of your descriptions of yourself) that you could be a big jerk. This is not a bad position to be in.

    Always assume she is attracted. Dont get needy... TRUE... stay busy ... but dont just take a couple flake outs as she isnt interested. Wait until you have more evidence.

    If you stay busy and later find out she doesnt like u, then its no big deal because YOU ARE ALREADY LIVING LIFE WITH OTHER GIRLS AROUND ANYWAY.
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    Default Re: Mixed signals, texting vs 1on1 game, what am i doing wrong?

    Well I would of kept her wondering what you thought of her and maybe messed around with her when you meet up with her about how she is or something. Also your texting was decent but the cya later bro just wasn't neccesary. Saying "bro" just makes it seem like you just want to be friends in my opinion.

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    Default Re: Mixed signals, texting vs 1on1 game, what am i doing wrong?

    Yes saying bro signifies you want to be friends... and that's OK... because YOU want to be friends... it could be a way to show her your not needy.

    Seriously guys... read red baron's disqualification guide already.
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    Default Re: Mixed signals, texting vs 1on1 game, what am i doing wrong?

    Lockdown what did you mean by: "No offense to anyone who posted but there was no solid reason to believe the girl doesnt like you (at least none from the info u gave"
    I need some opinion on if I should stay the jerk and here and there drop clues of a nice guy. In a way I am asking how would you guys around her. This might be a dumb question but based on what I have shared with you guys where do I need to improve I know I have to qualify myself but what else, also when should I ask her out if you guys can give me a timeline.

    Also I'll appreciate you guys can post a link for red barons qualification guide.

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    Default Re: Mixed signals, texting vs 1on1 game, what am i doing wrong?

    Bump, come on fellas help a brother out.

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    Default Re: Mixed signals, texting vs 1on1 game, what am i doing wrong?

    Ok i guess i'm going to give some tough love. STOP asking us for every next move. That is way needy... do some of the heavy lifting yourself. It takes 2 minutes to search for red baron's guide. If you want to improve yourself at least take some responsibility and do some research. The only way to get good at PUA is to see what works for u and try it.

    We can suggest stuff all day BUT we are not you and we don't know the girl. Those two factors will influence what u do because some men have different styles because they have different strengths. You need to find what yours are. Dont be afraid to fail because THAT IS HOW WE ALL LEARNED WHAT WORKS.

    And if u think ACTING like a jerk is being alpha, then u need to go read up on what an alpha is. U r way off. That in itself may be your main issue
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    Default Re: Mixed signals, texting vs 1on1 game, what am i doing wrong?

    I needed that thanks lol, how am I gunna learn if I don't make mistakes.


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