Re: Mixed signals, texting vs 1on1 game, what am i doing wrong?
What's the problem with her knowing you are interested??? Like it's taboo lol.
Look the key is qualify, qualify, qualify!!
That is the REAL way to show her you are interested. It gives you a REASON to tell her you like her and not just come out of the blue while you're talking about work or school.
Of course qualification works much better once she is attracted to you. And by the text convo, you are well on your way. Don't worry about "selling yourself" the way Lockdown mentioned it. You don't TELL women you are a confident SOB. You SHOW her and have her learn for herself. I can say some pretty asshole things. Then when I am called an asshole I respond with "Eh. I do have my moments :P" Then move on to something else. I don't like to say "Oh yea I'm a total asshole."
Honestly I think you are getting into your own head about it. Relax and ALWAYS assume attraction. Remember, you get women regularly so this is no big deal for you. You are a man and don't have to apologize for your desires.
What's your goal? To sleep with her? Or to avoid telling her you like her at all costs? I mean...it can be a bit difficult to sleep with a woman without her knowing you ACTUALLY like her lol.
Summary: Keep building attraction until you know she is interested. Then qualify her so you have a reason to tell her you like her. (Ex: You know you are a really good listener. I'm so used to people just waiting for their turn to talk. But you make me feel like you're REALLY listening.)
P.S. Different women respond differently to jealousy plots. If she is introverted and a slightly low self-esteem she will just shut down on you and you will be going backwards. It's risky. It's better to use during night clubs when the sexual tension is high and the alcohol is flowing.
"All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."