There's this girl i fell pretty hard for when in high school, and being a typical 16 year old AFC I screwed the pooch hard on this girl. Leading to me chasing her for around 1 whole year, with not so much as a kiss from her.
She is the type of girl that is a flirt and likes the attention, so she would give me IOI's all the time, we were pretty much best friends, however never actually expressed how that she had feelings for me. Thus I ended up placing her on a massive pedestal and I still haven't completely gotten over her.

Three years have past and I am now 19 years old. I have just moved back home from living across the other side of Australia for uni and I have been learning and practicing game throughout the year. I am a completely different person to the 16 year old dweeb she used to know.

She has a boyfriend, however she is moving away at the end of the year and it is a possibility they might break up. However I am not really worried about the boyfriend, as Mystery says, "women will cheat at the drop of a hat".

We are not really on speaking terms, however we will exchange 'hi's' if we are in passing.

I am wondering if anyone has had any experience with girls they have been into for a massive amount of time like this. If they have been able to turn it around after their former AFC self has messed up.

If anyone has any advice on some good strategies that I could use to get back on speaking terms and ignite some attraction that would be awesome.

I would love to hear everyone's opinion if you are reading.

P.S. I acknowledge that this is my case of 'oneitis'. However being back home again I can't really help myself lol (I live in a rather small regional city).