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    Default such a pessimist its ruining my relationships help

    Hi guys so long story short i been hurt in the past by those cold hearted [women] which im sure all of you experienced but it turned me into such a pessimist. For example, i was suppose to hang out with this girl last night i been seeing she canceled on me last minute because she said she was overtired and i had work in the morning and she didn't want me to drive all the way over to her house just for her to fall asleep. She is a nurse so she had a12 hour shift that day. But i don't see it as that i see it as she doesn't want to hang with me, its over. I know i cant think like this because it will ruin relationships what can i do to stop thinking the worse all the time?
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    Default Re: such a pessimist its ruining my relationships help

    Take a small break. Clear your head and don't undertake any "romantic" action the coming week. Read up on PUA stuff and every time you catch yourself thinking negative thoughts, start thinking positive thoughts instead. At the end of the week, get back out there. It's a little "reset-button" you press so to say.


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