Hi guys so long story short i been hurt in the past by those cold hearted [women] which im sure all of you experienced but it turned me into such a pessimist. For example, i was suppose to hang out with this girl last night i been seeing she canceled on me last minute because she said she was overtired and i had work in the morning and she didn't want me to drive all the way over to her house just for her to fall asleep. She is a nurse so she had a12 hour shift that day. But i don't see it as that i see it as she doesn't want to hang with me, its over. I know i cant think like this because it will ruin relationships what can i do to stop thinking the worse all the time?