Hey, I am looking for advice on my situation. This girl I met in high school I became friends w on fb. We talked at length and then I just stopped.
Well she had said we should go out a couple times and I'd agree but never asked her out cause she had a bf. Well she asked again but actually asked for a day to meet at happy hour. I said thu or Friday. She picked Friday.
Everything went great but I could tell she was nervous. She said she likes going to concerts but no one will go w her. After I said she never asked me, I said what about her bf. she replied he usually won't go and thinks they probably won't stay together.
Skipping ahead she invites me to her house and then f close. So it was 5-12 from meeting up until sleep. I leave the next morning after talking for about 30 minutes and later get this text.
"Hey thanks for making my bed this morning :-). That was sweet. I had a really nice time last night. Was your car still in one piece? "
I reply- Making your bed was the least I could do considering I wasn't the one that moved to the couch! Yeah, I had a good time too & my car even survived.
Her: LOL well I had to go to the couch if either of us were going to get some sleep. I haven't done anything like that before. I had hoped it would have been under different circumstances. But I still had a great time. And u r pretty awesome :-)
Me: You're probably right about the sleep! I'm not sure which circumstances you're referring to but life is funny like that. Haha. I did have fun, and think you're pretty awesome too, (her name).
My concern is how to advance. I'd like to go out again but I don't want to push it since there is a bf in the picture. Any suggestions? This was Friday, and the texts yesterday.