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    Exclamation Need help getting to the girlfriend level with my classmate

    Sup Gentlemen!

    So I am brand new to this world of PUA and would definitely like to use the great advice on this forum to bag a really awesome girl I met. I am by no means a pro or whatever, but I definitely have been using the advice here.

    So here is a little jist, I am in grad school and met this girl in my class. About a month ago I met this girl and we started hanging out as workout buddies. At first we would run every Wednesday night (Still do). But over the course of the last few weeks we started doing more. We have gone out to dinner (it was supposed to be a group thing, but everyone bailed. I asked her if she wanted to grab food anyways and she agreed). Little by little I start realizing that this girl and I have a lot in common and have come to the realization that I want this girl under my arm.

    Yesterday we went on full day bike ride. We shared breakfast together and I bought her lunch. Overall it was an awesome day. Lots of conversation, negs, and some kino. She has been initiating more texts with me, I try to play it cool though and not seem needy.

    So here is my issue, I'm not sure if she is into me or not ( I suck at reading people, hence why I'm here to learn how to be better at reading interest signals). I flirt with her, but she really doesn't flirt back, or does so really little. She did tell me though that she is oblivious to when guys hit on her though. So I'm trying to figure out how to handle this girl and get her under my arm.

    I have one last issue, I have a GF, and this girl knows this. She also knows that things between me and my current GF have been going down hill. Unfortunately, I've really developed feelings for this girl and I could use some advice right now.

    Thanks guys!
    -G_A

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    Default Re: Need help getting to the girlfriend level with my classmate

    Dude this is what I tell all my buddy who are in failing relationships and I'll tell you the same thing. If you aren't happy get the fark out. Life's too short to be wasting it on half ass relationships. That's the point of PUA to have a community where each guy can reach his goals with his relationships. She may have been your first or whatever but forget about that... if you aren't happy get out there and make yourself happy. I suggest breaking it off with your girlfriend though before continuing with this new girl. That may be what is scaring her off a little and besides you don't want to get a bad rep.
    In life you get what you put into it.

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    Default Re: Need help getting to the girlfriend level with my classmate

    First, thanks for the reply. Second, I'm having a rough time bringing myself to break up with her. She was my first (in both bed and emotionally) and she is really sweet to me, but I'm just not feeling it anymore. Any tips on a good way to let her down, I know that dragging this on is only making it worse. I'm going to try and break it off tonight.

    As for this other girl, she invited (her first initiation)me out for a run around a lake and we ended up walking around talking about life. She also initiated kino with a hug. After a while she sends me a text saying

    her: "I'm grateful that you are at [university]. It's nice to have someone that's on the same page as you with a lot of things so yea thanks."

    me: "Thanks [her name], I really appreciate that It's nice to have someone that makes me smile even when I have a shitty week"

    her

    I left it there, I didn't want to come across as AFC. I'm not sure if she has put me in the friend zone or not, but I was wondering what are some good next steps?

    Your input is awesomely appreciated

    G_A

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    Default Re: Need help getting to the girlfriend level with my classmate

    Uhh I can't really gauge where shes at with that little bit of information send me some more texts and I can probably help you out. As far as breaking up with your old girl there's really no better way to do it. Doing it in person is better closure though even if its harder. Just what ever you do don't fall into her saying she'll change and you can work past it. just end it there and move on.
    In life you get what you put into it.

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    Default Re: Need help getting to the girlfriend level with my classmate

    Most of my texting with her is usually us talking about something that we want to do together, or her just wishing me to have an awesome day. Most of my game with her has come from when we hang out and such. I find that I've built a lot of Rapport with her, while keeping it flirty and physical. Yesterday during our walk I got a lot of giggling and laughing from my flirting moves.

    She always smiles when she talks to me and her body language is very open with me. Although I can't tell if she is into me or not. If you want I can delve into more detail, I'm just not sure what details to go into lol

    G_A

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    Default Re: Need help getting to the girlfriend level with my classmate

    It sounds like you're in the clear with this one. Just make sure you break it off with the old one first. Pm me if you have any more questions
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